"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ONS wants something?

iamnobody

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Background:
She’s an ONS from a few months ago, 7.5-8 huge attention where, 23, divorced. The night I fvcked her (our first “date”) she gave some AFC her phone number in the toilet. Decided to fvck her anyway, she is hot. However sex was good, she rode my c0ck with enthusiasm so I decided to keep her around, see if she can be upgraded to a FWB. That was until she showed up very drunk to my birthday in a bar, a week later. Dumped her callously the next morning, then NC.

Since then her interest in me skyrocketed. Wanted to meet 2 weeks later, I assumed she wanted an ego boost or wanted to get back with me. Told her I don't want to get back together with her. She ended up making a scene and screaming in a bar. I left in dsgust.

6 weeks after the breakup we go out on a crazy date I suggested (wanted to road test some stuff), she at some point asked me if I’m seeing anybody. I told her yes, as I started seeing the BPD chick (sigh).

Eventually she found some dude and she wants to take is slow with him. I told her I’m skeptical about it if she wants to take it slow. Anyway, I was in the honeymoon period with the BPD so I warmly congratulated her. She drops from the face of the earth. Until a few days ago.

Current situation:
ONS knows I have a GF (and that I’m bored with her). She came around again 2 days ago, sat by my side (uninvited and out of the blue) as I was in a bar working on my laptop. Conversation is good and witty as ususal. A lot of taunting on both sides. I told her I had a very busy week and look forward to get wasted this weekend. She said “You’re too late, I already have plans.” I replied smirking with “Aren’t you a bit presumptuous?”. She laughed it off, and we kept taunting each other.
A female friend of mine arrives and sits down and the ONS snaps saying “You could’ve told me your waiting for somebody” and storms off quite p1ssed.
Yesterday she pops up again with some orbiters, sat on my couch. After a few taunts exchanged she blurted out of nowhere “Despite you being skeptical, I still have a BF”. I gave her a blank stare and asked “So?” She kept pushing for that, so eventually I suggested, as a joke that she should have a t-shirt saying “I have a boyfriend” and changed the subject.

I’m not sure if this is just a way to boost her ego. Fact is I don’t want her as a GF but I woudn’t mind having her as a fvck buddy. What do you DJs make of it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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iamnobody

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I’m not into her. Just stating the facts accurately, learning curve here.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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yuppaz

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You are too into the drama. There is no positive benefit to dealing with these kinds of garbage girls.
 

captain A

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she obviously wants your nuts but that AW crap just isn't cool.
You have to show that you have standards and stick to them. Ditch that girl.
 
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