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ONS saying ex has an STD to brush me off, or is this genuine?

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So I got a girl to come to mines off POF past midnight and we had sex. I treated her well on the date, a couple of hours of hanging out before we have the sex.

In the heat of the moment, I left the condoms on the dresser. (I know, I know).

She leaves my place in the early morning, but at her insistence for work reasons. I treat her respectfully and compliment her on her sexiness, I call her cab and pay for it and we part with a long kiss. We exchange friendly texts in the afternoon about how horny she got me and she is glad to know she can still get guys going. She asks if she will need the morning after pill but I am relaxed about it, saying that because she just had her period and because of her age (she is late 30s), that the risk was low but to check with her doctor to be sure. She says ok, she will do.

A couple of days later I send her a text suggesting it would be incredibly hot to do it again. A few hours later I log in to the site to find her mail gone from my inbox, I view her profile and try to send a message to confirm what I suspect: she has blocked me on the website.

I then almost immediately after viewing her profile (can the girls see you viewed the profile again, after the first view a couple of days before, or was it coincidence) get a text saying she just found out her ex has a dread STD (I won't say which as I don't want to set hares running), and to get tested just as she has done that day. Nothing about what the results are or when she expects them, just that she got herself tested that day.

My stupidity aside, and I am worried enough to get tested, but does it look like there's a good chance she has made this up just to get me off her back? It seems such a huge coincidence that she "just finds out" two days after she slept with me? And it ties in with her blocking me on the site? Why would she do that unless she didn't want to see me again?

Wouldn't she express fear, etc. if it was genuine? If it was genuine, why would she block me on the site?
 

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Who cares?

It's funny to me how often the obvious answer to many of these questions is either "leave" or "don't say anything." Easy in theory, hard in practice.
 

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I hope she is lying obviously - I am scared for my health!

I don't want to see her again either way after that text.
 

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The obvious action is to get tested and next the chick. If you didn't catch anything, then the "ex" she's talking about is probably not an ex. It's likely they're still dating and her ASD went up because she knew she was doing something she had no business doing in the first place.
 

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I remember her saying, "I'm not married" on the date, when I commented that we weren't hurting anyone with the hookup.

Wouldn't most women have said, "I'm single", or "I don't have a boyfriend"!
 

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Even if she never said anything about a STD you should still get tested anyway since you forgot the condom with a random POF slut.

Reply to the text and tell her you are really sorry but you have HIV.
 

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What a drama bomb. Sounds like she just wanted you for the night and in an attempt to make sure of that, she blocked you and conveniently dropped an STD story in your lap. I would certainly hope you'd avoid her at this point, but you won't.

It sounds like you care quite a bit about what her opinion of you is. Regardless of why she bailed, it doesn't really matter. You got yours and found out she's probably a headcase, I'd say you did quite well given the circumstances.\


EDIT: I just read this again. Let me get this straight...you may have contracted an STD from her and you're worried about her opinion of you, or worse, her rationalized explanation of her unpredictable behavior?
 

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No - I want to know the odds are in my favour that this is just a drama bomb and reduce my anxiety that when I go for the STD test it will be routine and likely come back clean.
 

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Dear Scormus,
Well we've all done it....My Doctor claims that simply peeing in
the shower as you wash your genitals with soap and water will stop most
STD's,he further told me the biggest problem with low class Women is Hepatitis B....I think you should see an STD clinic without Delay!If the Woman has Money and you do catch a dose,then sue the Bvitch!
 

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origin138 said:
What a drama bomb. Sounds like she just wanted you for the night and in an attempt to make sure of that, she blocked you and conveniently dropped an STD story in your lap. I would certainly hope you'd avoid her at this point, but you won't.

It sounds like you care quite a bit about what her opinion of you is. Regardless of why she bailed, it doesn't really matter. You got yours and found out she's probably a headcase, I'd say you did quite well given the circumstances.\


EDIT: I just read this again. Let me get this straight...you may have contracted an STD from her and you're worried about her opinion of you, or worse, her rationalized explanation of her unpredictable behavior?
This

My mind is blown at this thread and I sincerely hope OP is trolling. If a bytch told me she had something after I smashed raw do you really think I give a phuck about that wench?

HELL NO

OP I've told you in another thread before get of POF, the women are bottom of the barrel you saw the posts and link I posted in your other thread. These women are low quality trash.

What city do you live in?
 

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Solomon said:
This

My mind is blown at this thread and I sincerely hope OP is trolling. If a bytch told me she had something after I smashed raw do you really think I give a phuck about that wench?

HELL NO

OP I've told you in another thread before get of POF, the women are bottom of the barrel you saw the posts and link I posted in your other thread. These women are low quality trash.

What city do you live in?
The trash could be anywhere. I met the trashiest possible woman on match.com. The one with the 2 baby fathers, (1 when I met her) collects 2 child support payments, let's her kids meet 5 men a week, and tried to get me to impregnate her and it almost worked.
 

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Malice said:
The trash could be anywhere. I met the trashiest possible woman on match.com. The one with the 2 baby fathers, (1 when I met her) collects 2 child support payments, let's her kids meet 5 men a week, and tried to get me to impregnate her and it almost worked.
You're right trash is everywhere not just on POF but online period. but only on POF will a woman aadmit to sleeping with homeless men

Last time I tried this I got mixed reviews on being openly satirical and advising my opinions toward dating. I got a lot of 'we know what you don't want, so what DO you want'?. Perhaps I don't take this site seriously as the first guy I met from here was married with four children-of which I did NOT know until wifey called my phone the next day. Then there was the homeless guy- I only found out because he kept wanting to shower at my house and take naps and was always wearing the same outfit. Then there was Rashad Amhad, who, when I asked if that was a family name replied with 'nah, muh dad's Larry'. Then there was the guy missing his front tooth who ordered $30 worth of food to my ONE Bud Light, threw a $5 bill on the table and said 'you got the rest, babe?'.

I've had some interesting ones, that's for sure.

Essentially, I want a good guy with a good heart, a good job and a good family. I'm fiercely independent and firmly believe that there's nothing aside from a connection that I need from you. I work very hard and take care of myself. I recently moved to Minneapolis from Los Angeles and am struggling to find a niche here. I grew up in southwest Minnesota but have been in LA most of my adult life. I work in fashion and will hopefully return to Los Angeles within the next few years. I took a great job here and I do like being closer to my family.

I'm really outgoing. I'll probably call you 'cupcake' or 'muffin' or some other cheesy nickname, but it's all in fun. My ideal companion would love to drink beer and watch Family Guy on a Saturday. I have a series of lame jokes and have no issue being myself and adapting to new people
Online dating is mostly bottom of the barrel. Yes a lot of those chicks are at bars and clubs too but it's a lot easier to screen/qualify/weed these skanks out in person then online.

This is why it blows my mind how this site doesn't push going infield, Online should be use for slumpbusting
 

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when will some of you blokes realise that a lot of women are much bigger players than men, was she telling the truth re the std? who knows, get tested anyway. she blocked you, didnt reply...she was telling you something...'go away I got what I wanted'
 

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Solomon said:
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You're right trash is everywhere not just on POF but online period. but only on POF will a woman aadmit to sleeping with homeless men

I met my woman online when I wasn't really trying. I threw up for fun a pimp profile on craigslist and she replied because my profile was funny, I called her and set up a date and the rest is history. Been with her 3 years married and completely drama free she is great (and foreign). **** American women.
 
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