"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lately its been pretty boring, and i havent really got laid in a couple of weeks now...the *****es that i was ****ing are out of town and stuff....

Well ive had a couple of ONS...Theres this girl tho that i met one night and ****ed her, but shes kinda in my friends social circle or whatever. i got her # and she got mine, at it was at this small party so i just decided to spend the night and she did too and thats when we ended up banging. She called me like 2 days after we went out for drinks and that was that... i havent seen her in like 2 months

ONS go kinda like meet, ****, forget...would it be a bad idea if i called this ***** up? would it be better to ask her out for like a date(which im not crazy about, bc i just dont have the time for that bs), or just let her know that i just want to get together with her to **** her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Chances are she just wants to fvck too. If you were good the first time, then she prolly wouldn't mind doin it again. If you sucked...you got no chance. Call her up, chat, maybe talk a little about sex related stuff (that way if she's isn't interested you might be able to tell) and see if she wants to come to your house for drinks and a chill evening, then take it from there (better yet ask her if she wants to come to your house for drinks, or if you should bring the drinks to hers).

I'm sure you can run some better game than this, so just put your thoughts into action.

(Maybe something like this:
You: Hey I was lookin through my phone book and I came across your name and remembered how much fun we had)

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Man tell her straight if she fu*ked you the first time you met what do you think? when you tell her you want to fu*k she will say NO yuk im not like that.

Call her and say "lets hookup at my place/your place and F*ck". None of this drinks bullsh*t tell her STRAIGHT BE A MAN. There is no use of ***** footing around it she know what you want.
 
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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Man tell her straight if she fu*ked you the first time you met what do you think? when you tell her you want to fu*k she will say NO yuk im not like that.

Call her and say "lets hookup at my place/your place and F*ck". None of this drinks bullsh*t tell her STRAIGHT BE A MAN. There is no use of ***** footing around it she know what you want.
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What he said.

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Call her and say "lets hookup at my place/your place and F*ck". None of this drinks bullsh*t tell her STRAIGHT BE A MAN. There is no use of ***** footing around it she know what you want.
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waw, how settle and romantic. No chick can resist that:rolleyes:

but he is probably right; chances are, she'll do it ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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there are times that call for romance and time that call for directness. With a girl you fu*k the first time you meet its better to be direct.
 
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alright im going to call her tonight.... I just wasnt sure bc i have never called a ONS back to do anything....Im in time of need tho and i got to start recycling.
 
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