"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Only half my abs show...why?

teagan

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Like the title says, only half of my abs show. The right half is fully defined but on the left side, only the top of my abs shows. The lower left is not as defined as my lower right. Why is this?

And for the record, Im 6'1" at 215lbs with a body fat last tested (a month ago) at 8.7%.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MrS

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clearly your bodyfat isn't 8.7%, more like 9.2% or more
 

Zaraza

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at 8 % body fat they should show. Are you bloated? got a full bladder? just ate?


drank lots of water? My abs always look better in morning when i wake up and am dehydrated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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teagan

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Just had a doctor visit yesterday and asked him. He attributed it to natural asymmetry in my abs combined with favoring one side over the other when I lift.

I guess that makes sense.
 
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