"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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players... i have pretty good confidence but for some reason... i cant talk.... now when i say cant talk i mean i get nervous, stutter, talk to low, and say STUPID things.. like ill say wuts up like 5 times to the smae girl in a 2 minute convorsation... like when she stops tlaking ill just repharse it to how u doing today, so your doing alrihgt... and ill keep saying it for some stupid reason.... im just really dumb, but i have a good smile and im always hpapy i just say stupid things i dont understand i talk to so many girls and keep praticing :(
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Before you say anything, THINK about it and play it in your head. If it sounds retarded, don't say it
 
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You know what your problem is. What you have to do is just make an effort to stop.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lol you two guys deserve a good slap! Your lucky all 4 of us aren;t in the same room.

sportf walk this way, you can listen to those blow hards when you understand how to laugh at the little things in life. haha I have to get a girl to laugh about that tomorrow, small things in life.

What you have to do is stop worrying, if you are worried, than you are scared. What is the use of being scared, its the complete opposite of your goal. You are talking to the girl, but in essence you are running away. You act like a cowardly dog with its tail tucked betweens its legs.

What you need to do is react to her seeing you with anger, not physical anger, but emotional and verbal. They love it, it shows them you are confident and in charge. I'd explain to you why your brain thinks this way, but it would be a waste on you just yet.

Nobody is going to come out of the blue with a raised fist if you say anything stupid son.
 
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