“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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In old China there’s a saying (that modern women today despise and they lose their minds hearing this)

it says that to grow strong males you need to give them every resource available. Give them educations and all the tools necessary to grow their skills and knowledge - but for the girls just give them a box of twigs and rocks and things

The meaning behind this is that females are born with everything they will ever need naturally. Males on the other hand need assistance. It’s just how it is. But here in western society we went overboard with pampering the feminism

in China they knew feminism was poison to culture. So China has been educating males to become masters degree Engineers who will make enough money to support families

Here in the west we took the toxic bait of feminism
 

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In old China there’s a saying (that modern women today despise and they lose their minds hearing this)

it says that to grow strong males you need to give them every resource available. Give them educations and all the tools necessary to grow their skills and knowledge - but for the girls just give them a box of twigs and rocks and things

The meaning behind this is that females are born with everything they will ever need naturally. Males on the other hand need assistance. It’s just how it is. But here in western society we went overboard with pampering the feminism

in China they knew feminism was poison to culture. So China has been educating males to become masters degree Engineers who will make enough money to support families

Here in the west we took the toxic bait of feminism
Seducers/PUA’s/DJ’s should be thankful for feminism.
 

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Feminism has completely destroyed Western society. Any man who thinks feminism is somehow a good and will help him get laid is completely delusional.

A good summary of what feminism has done to America:

 

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Feminism has completely destroyed Western society. Any man who thinks feminism is somehow a good and will help him get laid is completely delusional.
They are not delusional...they may be chadlite and chads tier. Those are the only ones who are benefitting.
 

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They are not delusional...they may be chadlite and chads tier. Those are the only ones who are benefitting.
Trust me, chads were doing just fine long before feminism. Ever heard of Don Juan? Casanova? They lived 300-400 years ago.
 

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I don't think you understand what feminism is. Feminists want "Seducers/PUA’s/DJ’s" to be locked up.
Yes. Feminists want many men in prison. But one of feminism’s foremost aims is sexual freedom. They are and were the main enforcers of sexual revolution.

They want to look up “high value men” not committing (belated false accusations) and lock up other men for being sexual harassers.
 

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Yes. Feminists want many men in prison. But one of feminism’s foremost aims is sexual freedom. They are and were the main enforcers of sexual revolution.

They want to look up “high value men” not committing (belated false accusations) and lock up other men for being sexual harassers.
Feminism and sexual freedom have very little to do with each other. Feminism has been around since since the 1840's. The sexual revolution had to wait another 120 years.

The sexual revolution of the 1960's was the result of a confluence of multiple factors including the invention of contraceptives, declining religiosity, loosening of public morals, lifestyle changes (i.e. the normalization of nightlife), etc.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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I agree with you @Bokanovsky on this. I think the invention of the oral contraceptive was the biggest obvious factor, but you also had the parents of the Baby Boomers, who had just come back from WW2, with millions eradicated and millions more traumatized (although nobody talked about that in the 40s and 50s), and those families were desperate for a type of normalcy they could only imagine, but set about doing.

So everybody spoiled their precious babies rather than taught them how real life is. Those men had seen real life up close and personal and wanted to shield their children from it at all costs. Which raised the terribly entitled Baby Boomer generation (that the introduction of oral contraceptives coincided with.)
 

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I agree with you @Bokanovsky on this. I think the invention of the oral contraceptive was the biggest obvious factor, but you also had the parents of the Baby Boomers, who had just come back from WW2, with millions eradicated and millions more traumatized (although nobody talked about that in the 40s and 50s), and those families were desperate for a type of normalcy they could only imagine, but set about doing.

So everybody spoiled their precious babies rather than taught them how real life is. Those men had seen real life up close and personal and wanted to shield their children from it at all costs. Which raised the terribly entitled Baby Boomer generation (that the introduction of oral contraceptives coincided with.)
I'm not sure that WWII was a big factor. The U.S. had comparatively few casualties in WWII compared to countries like Germany and Russia. I think the spoiling that you refer to is more a result of post-war economic prosperity. It takes financial resources to spoil one's kids.
 

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Trust me, chads were doing just fine long before feminism. Ever heard of Don Juan? Casanova? They lived 300-400 years ago.
They have an near unlimited pool of women available from dating apps with women visiting them to hook up for free. No game needed. So yeah, way easier then ever before and they dont have the same b shields to worry about as most women want them to approach.

Look at @Cheeky_James lay threads for example.
 

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Feminism has completely destroyed Western society
Identity Politics of all varieties are doing us fewer favors than the persistence of Muti does to the lifespan of an albino, who has the misfortune of being born anywhere Sub-Saharan. As to this survey, which has had both large segments of The Manosphere and staid, stick up the rear Conservative media triggered over the past week, I say:

Let's all give less than 1 1,000,000,000th of a f-ck what broads like these think. Like men who despise women, they ultimately hurt themselves, more than anyone else
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Quote that article: "Given men’s natural disinclination to fight with women, good men simply went silent about women’s lib, while the bad ones “benefitted” from and promoted it"

Nope, entirely too many of us were simply spineless back in the day, remain so now, and thus are routinely castrated by every shrew we stumble across. There's nothing "good" or noble about such cowardice
 

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I don't think you understand what feminism is. Feminists want "Seducers/PUA’s/DJ’s" to be locked up.
Remember, "don't listen to what women say, but look at what they do". If feminists want "seducers/PUA's/DJ's" to be locked up, why do they date them and sleep with them?... And these women do this over and over again... until their looks fade, but yet they don't yield, but continue to yearn for these seducers saying if they "can't find a 'good man'", they will just be alone.
 

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Be Obi-Wan or Yoda. Got it.
 

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They have an near unlimited pool of women available from dating apps with women visiting them to hook up for free. No game needed. So yeah, way easier then ever before and they dont have the same b shields to worry about as most women want them to approach.

Look at @Cheeky_James lay threads for example.
Hey, hey fella. Easy now. I still have to banter , create rapport , leave them waiting and then turn them on and arouse them using words / voice memos in a suave and charming way. And tailor it all specifically to them. So there’s still a Gamey process involved ,that takes time…
 
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The truth about these babes is truly vicious but

I don’t know whereabouts you guys live but in my neighborhood there’s many thousands of hot babes, and I’d go so far to say None of them have a boyfriend. I mean you almost can’t believe it or accept it but it’s like None of them are committed.

you might see couples with her putting on a performance but the truth is these babes are All just jumping from guy to guy. It’s just the hard truth it’s honestly tough to believe because hot women are such magnificent performers/liars
 
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