"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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only a friend?

wonderingwhy

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im just wondering whats up with this... seems like girls i meet see me as only a friend from the beginning... startin to piss me off. im not ugly or fat or anything like that. girls say im cute... but only like me as a friend. tell me whats up?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cremasta

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In their eyes... you are asexual.

Stop being so bloody nice to them. Stop being friendly and start being charming and flirtatious.
 

squirrels

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R.E.A.D DJ BIBLE.
 

rgeere

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Make them all aquaintances andwhen they whine to you about it continue to make them work for your attention and approval.

Sounds cruel, but if you want to improve go to the opposite extreeme for a long period of time then slack up a little bit so you are tolerable.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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