"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I met this chick online but she's many miles away. There's a 2% chance she'd ever visit or vice versa and it's anyone's guess if it'd be on if either scenario happened. It's strange but in the beginning the conversation was nice in that I've been slow to meet people here (read 'I ain't gettin' any) so it's been a diversion at best. Don't get me wrong...I'm socially adept enough to know this is just killing time. I'm wondering what others' opinions are though? Hang on just for a female perspective now and again...or stop wasting my time. I'm guessing a lot of you think every female in your life should be potential nookie at least. In many ways, I'm with you...just confused. I'm kinda tired of hearing of her dating tales when there's none to tell on my end...yet anyway.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dude, there are millions of hot women in your area. Consensus here seems to be that online sarging pays off for the people who put work into it, although it is just one aspect of overall game. Are you on myspace, friendster, facebook, hotornot, match, plentyoffish, or webdate? They are all free except for match. btw eharmony sucks if you want younger women.

myspace groups has an interest group for just about everything. Whatever your hobbies, there are women who like that, too. Then you have a common interest from the beginning and a logical course of action for the first date, which is doing that activity together.
 

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styles07 said:
. I'm kinda tired of hearing of her dating tales when there's none to tell on my end...yet anyway.
Does that mean that you have lstened to /read about, and discussed HER recent dating activties ?? WTF are you doing !
So she is telling YOU about how popular she is with other guys !!

She is an AW !!

And you are acting like a chump. The micro-moment after women start talking about their romantic life with other guys is when they should eat your dust.

N-E-X=T !!
 

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Why waste your time with this long distance BS?

I wasted a couple of months talking to this chick that lived 1000 miles away back when I didn't know any better. Chick even sent me FLOWERS. Then when it came down to "put up or shut up", guess what happened? NOTHING. I probably could have flown up there but I'm glad I didn't.

Had an employee back in the day who DID drive 3 hours to meet a chick who he thought was gonna fukk him silly. Got down there and found out this chick had a BOYFRIEND and didn't wanna play. He was PISSED.

Don't be stupid.
 

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I agree

It's funny that I know all this stuff but have just gotten out of practice. You're right that I'm wasting my time. Proactivity got lost somewhere and I need to pick myself up by the boot straps...thanks I needed the push.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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