"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I met this chick online but she's many miles away. There's a 2% chance she'd ever visit or vice versa and it's anyone's guess if it'd be on if either scenario happened. It's strange but in the beginning the conversation was nice in that I've been slow to meet people here (read 'I ain't gettin' any) so it's been a diversion at best. Don't get me wrong...I'm socially adept enough to know this is just killing time. I'm wondering what others' opinions are though? Hang on just for a female perspective now and again...or stop wasting my time. I'm guessing a lot of you think every female in your life should be potential nookie at least. In many ways, I'm with you...just confused. I'm kinda tired of hearing of her dating tales when there's none to tell on my end...yet anyway.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude, there are millions of hot women in your area. Consensus here seems to be that online sarging pays off for the people who put work into it, although it is just one aspect of overall game. Are you on myspace, friendster, facebook, hotornot, match, plentyoffish, or webdate? They are all free except for match. btw eharmony sucks if you want younger women.

myspace groups has an interest group for just about everything. Whatever your hobbies, there are women who like that, too. Then you have a common interest from the beginning and a logical course of action for the first date, which is doing that activity together.
 
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styles07 said:
. I'm kinda tired of hearing of her dating tales when there's none to tell on my end...yet anyway.
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Does that mean that you have lstened to /read about, and discussed HER recent dating activties ?? WTF are you doing !
So she is telling YOU about how popular she is with other guys !!

She is an AW !!

And you are acting like a chump. The micro-moment after women start talking about their romantic life with other guys is when they should eat your dust.

N-E-X=T !!
 
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Why waste your time with this long distance BS?

I wasted a couple of months talking to this chick that lived 1000 miles away back when I didn't know any better. Chick even sent me FLOWERS. Then when it came down to "put up or shut up", guess what happened? NOTHING. I probably could have flown up there but I'm glad I didn't.

Had an employee back in the day who DID drive 3 hours to meet a chick who he thought was gonna fukk him silly. Got down there and found out this chick had a BOYFRIEND and didn't wanna play. He was PISSED.

Don't be stupid.
 
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I agree

It's funny that I know all this stuff but have just gotten out of practice. You're right that I'm wasting my time. Proactivity got lost somewhere and I need to pick myself up by the boot straps...thanks I needed the push.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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