"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Online vs. Real Life friends

crackers444

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I am interested to know, Do you prefer to "hang out" with friends online or do you prefer to hang out in "Real Life"? I tend to chat with friends online. It's more easy to chat with people online, then in public generally. However I do hang out with people offline sometimes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ChrizZ

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crackers444 said:
I am interested to know, Do you prefer to "hang out" with friends online or do you prefer to hang out in "Real Life"? I tend to chat with friends online. It's more easy to chat with people online, then in public generally. However I do hang out with people offline sometimes.
lol
 

L B

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There is no substitute for a face to face conversation; many skills come into play. Sitting in front of a computer all day is no way to live out your social life. Go back and read your last sentence again.
 
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