Online trouble

[DJ_in_making]

I was on this place online called myspace, and added a lot of girls as buddies, and they accepted the invitation. I know most of these HOT girls are used to getting messages from really horny guys. I try to be different and just tell them to tell me a little about themselves personally, and stuff. Most of them are not replying, can anyone offer any help of how else to approach this?

 

[IsiMan84]

I would avoid the whole online thing altogether and go for something in person. A lot of those girls do it for attention or to see who will talk to them, etc. Take this from a guy who's been trying that garbage ever since he's had internet. I still talk to people on there for the hell of it, but I'm still pretty skeptical when it comes to actually getting them to do anything. Just about every girl I've done anything with was in person.

 

[DJ_in_making]

you're right, I think personal is much better. I just thought I could do this on the side too, extra mackin'.

 

[IsiMan84]

Yea that's basically what I'm doing. Talking to the girl is one thing, but then actually meeting her and working from there is quite a bit of work. If you contact them outta the blue chances are gonna be pretty slim. If you got a mutual friend or something in common to work with, it would help a little.

 

[IsiMan84]

Oh yea and the whole dishonesty thing. Fake pictures or them actually being 16 can be a killer too. Always makes you wonder when you notice 90% of the girls on a particular site claim to be 18...

 

[DJ_in_making]

lol. That would suck if it was some killer.

 

[IsiMan84]

I'm more worried about fatties than I am killers. You don't gotta live with your problems if the killer is successful, but if the fattie is successful you'll probably end it all anyways haha.

 

[quest]

guys, don't practice "macking" on the net.
spend that time lifting, or learning.

theres a post floating about in anything else, something about 80/20.
look it up.

the gist of it is.

we'll break "macking" down into one thing. one thing has 100% correct?

if you're not lifting, learning. when you "mack"
100% of your effort is with approaches.
if 80% of your time is lifting/learning, the 20% of time you approach you'll be more successful, due to your impressive new abilities.

 

[jag]

dude...do this instead...when u message them.........im not exactly a don juan yet....but nevertheless..this **** worked for me.......i remember the bible...be mysterious..****y/...and funny.....and be A MANNN!!!!

so heres how the message i sent went..



i dont know u,,,and u dont know me.....but
you will trust and follow me in this......

ok i want you to do this right now...yeas RIGHT NOW.........ok get ur cellphone....which is most probrably right beside u already...u being a girl.....(sighhh typical....) but its all good.........so u have ur cell.....then i want you to encode YOUR mobile number to this message...............
so basically, the reply i get should contain 11 unique digits thatl somehow..connnect me...with you.....and THEN...........
....................
you will wait............

 

[squirrels]

Online trouble

That's all you need to know.

 

[Qmanchoo]

After talking on AIM with 8-10 girls from myspace I got 4 of them to admit that they lied their ASSES OFF in the profile and generally used myspace for personal amusement when they are bored.

If you want to get something started on myspace you need to get noticed in your messages, why would a person you don't know want to tell you anything personal about themselves?

You capture peoples interest by being out of the ordinary. For instance in myspace 99% of the guys on there say "Oh you're so beautiful" "Thanks for the ad babe!" "I love you" "Woman you so fine!" "Hey you sound cool send me a message!" "Hey you're interesting tell me something about yourself!"

To a 6 some of this might be out of the ordinary, get her attention, and start a conversation.

To a 9 this is run of the mill.

Anyway, here is an example of some girl I decided to make fun of while bored at work if you want to work off of it.

I just tease the hell out of them using the profile as material.

First, glace at her profile and look at her picture then come up with a context to make fun of her in a light hearted way.

http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...file&friendID=13877785&Mytoken=20050610061332

First message:
lol nice pic
Body: "I rock and am all sorts of fabulous. Is there really much more to say?! "

Not too much more to say, that picture really says it all. Apparently you were rocking so hard you forgot to look at all your fabulous flash settings.

Reply:
RE: lol nice pic
Wow. Thanks, I'll be sure to keep the flash settings on my ****ty ass camera phone in mind next time I use it.

Second message:
RE: RE: lol nice pic
Body: Ok but you have to promise me you'll focus REALLY hard, because judging by the number of periods in your profile you must have a serious case of ADD.

Reply:
RE: RE: RE: lol nice pic
Body: Yes, it may be hard but I will try my very best to keep my attention span in one spot for as long as possible.

Third message:
RE: RE: RE: lol nice pic
Body: Yeah but trying requires effort, and ADD has its advantages. You could try to do things one at a time or you could take pictures, do my laundry, and play with your polly pocket dolls all at the same time.

Reply:
RE: RE: RE: RE lol nice pic
Body: Yes I'm quite talented, I could do all three. But if I'm playing with the polly pocket dolls what will you do for fun?

And so on and so on...lol, I love it. If you want you can eventually get the AIM, and then progress to a regular yet interesting topic of conversation (maybe something like male/female dishonesty in dating and how you can't stand it...with a personal story, or something crazy involving the police that happened to you at some point)

After you get her attention with the first story/topic...start to move on to another and then say something to the effect of...

"Lets talk on the phone like normal people, give me your number, it's ok I'll only look up on yellowpages.com, get your home address, and drive circles around your block at 4am"

And from there setup a meeting after a good phone conversation...

It's a lot of effort BUT you have some good dialogue when you finally meet and a few different contexts to talk about "weird online meetings, creepy myspace people, funny things you've already said" and all sorts of other things.

Just keep in mind that to HER you're some odd creepy internet dude AT FISRT and you have to dispell that thought in her mind as quiclky as possible. You do this by making fun of the things that might creep her out (which is why i use the stalker joke and make them laugh as much as possible)

 

[darthsidious]

they get hit on all the time, what makes you different from the 3-5 guys that send her a message each week (if she's a hottie)

true... yoda is my fluffer