"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ATM, my only contact with this chick is on msn, and she only comes on once or twice a month. I do know her in person, haven't seen her in 5 or 6 years though, but she liked me then and seems chatty on msn. She said a while ago that I don't see her on a lot of the time because her status is offline, not because she isn't there.

So what would be my best move in this situation? At this point sending an email asking her out would seem quite strange and out of the blue, might not work either. On msn though, I can screen her a bit then go for it and just say 'lets catch up or something' so it really is far better than email. But I don't want to wait ages, I need some way to get in contact or at least attract her attention so she comes online without seeming weird.

And don't just say forget about it, because I won't, and telling me to do nothing and wait really wouldn't help either.:rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm not going down the online route no more. I reckon you shouldn't either. But I'm no pro, so wateva man.
 
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written by a woman:
http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sfo/72823945.html

"After you are nice for a while, casually ask her somewhere. If she comes up with something like “I don’t date” act surprised and offended that she thinks it was a date. Make it awkward without you looking like the conceited one or blowing it out of proportion (subtlety is key!). Let her think that THAT was her idea, not yours. Trust me, she is painfully adverse to leading men on. More than likely, she has been accused of it since puberty and it hits a nerve."
 
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Originally posted by RBB
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I'm not going down the online route no more. I reckon you shouldn't either. But I'm no pro, so wateva man.
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I do know her in person
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Just don't see her nor have any way to contact her besides msn thus far..

My question was less to do with what to say when shes online, I can handle that I think, but more to getting her to be online or getting in contact with her since shes rarely there anymore. I don't know what kind of response I was hoping for.. Oh well.
 
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