"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Curious what good ones are about

I have just Plenty of Fish at the moment but 99% of people within 25 miles of myself are flat out a disgrace on there.

Facebook i use purley for friends

hot or not and myspace arnt really those type of sites.

so are there anymore free ones like plenty of fish i would like to check out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Modro said:
Curious what good ones are about

I have just Plenty of Fish at the moment but 99% of people within 25 miles of myself are flat out a disgrace on there.

Facebook i use purley for friends

hot or not and myspace arnt really those type of sites.

so are there anymore free ones like plenty of fish i would like to check out.
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What do you expect from free sites?
 
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I want to use them for practice while im on my improvement quest, there are a few on there but its like a black hole around my town, so mostle 30 + miles away
 
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Alright, but don't expect much from these sites either.

webdate.com
okcupid.com

There's a general "half @ss" attitude associated with people on free site. They didn't need to invest much into getting onto the site so what is their incentive for getting out and meeting people as compared to people on a pay service.
 
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