let me start by saying I'm an online pimp. I'm 22 and just graduated from college. I go on facebook and I'm able to get soo many numbers and get a lot of girls interested. I'm able to get girls to meet me pretty often I'd say i met almost 100 girls in person from facebook or Aol. I'm a good looking guy, and I spit some good game on them online, so its pretty easy. I used to be able to mess around with these girls in person and get a lot of interest. Lately, I havent had as much success. Like I'm always anxious in public, and that leads to me being inconsistent. Its kinda like the girl determines my success. If her interest is obvious, I'm able to get into my ****y confident routine and its easy, but if I'm not sure how she feels, I get kind of anxious and off my game. Any advice on how to be consistent and keep these girls interested once i meet them in person.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
This post has made me realize that the real success of online game is whether or not it improves your offline game and not the other way around. Other than learning how to qualify, online game may only truly help if you can evoke your game as close to real time as in real life.
In other words, you should be able to respond immediately and off the cuff as in a regular conversation and not cheat by taking your time to think of the perfect response to an email or post on a blog. The comfort and confidence that you have in real life should be pronounced online and not the other way around...
I'll have to give more thought to this....
In other words, you should be able to respond immediately and off the cuff as in a regular conversation and not cheat by taking your time to think of the perfect response to an email or post on a blog. The comfort and confidence that you have in real life should be pronounced online and not the other way around...
I'll have to give more thought to this....
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"Any advice on how to be consistent and keep these girls interested once i meet them in person."
Ya gotta stop entering her reality man.
You have your own, you are the prize, cool, calm, confident and collected no matter what anyone else thinks.
Be strong in your reality and if she's truly interested she'll enter that reality and if she doesn't you've lost nothing because you believe in yourself and will try again with another chick no problem.
Ya gotta stop entering her reality man.
You have your own, you are the prize, cool, calm, confident and collected no matter what anyone else thinks.
Be strong in your reality and if she's truly interested she'll enter that reality and if she doesn't you've lost nothing because you believe in yourself and will try again with another chick no problem.
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"Its kinda like the girl determines my success. If her interest is obvious, I'm able to get into my ****y confident routine and its easy, but if I'm not sure how she feels"
Like KontrollerX said man, u gotta get out of her reality. Its not up to her weather or not she likes u, you have to make it happen. Just belive in your mind no matter what this chick likes me and theres nothing she can do about it.
Like KontrollerX said man, u gotta get out of her reality. Its not up to her weather or not she likes u, you have to make it happen. Just belive in your mind no matter what this chick likes me and theres nothing she can do about it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Being good at online means you are good-looking so your problem is probably just not approaching enough in the real world.
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Once again, someone claiming to get tons of interest online without posting pictures. I've seen good looking people get nowhere near the claims some people on this site make.
Pics?
Pics?
I have no issue putting up pictures but i dont need any haters. They're on www.myspace.com/daonlymaledyme
Anyway honestly i dont do much after i graduated from college. I just work and chill home and meet these girls. WIth some girls im able to create the persona of being the **** and showing the confidence and acting like im all that, but its not real its kind of like an act that im able to use on some girls. I never approach at all, I just pimp online and get tons of women on facebook. I got approach anxiety and its hard to imagine myself doing that especially with this being so easy.
Anyway honestly i dont do much after i graduated from college. I just work and chill home and meet these girls. WIth some girls im able to create the persona of being the **** and showing the confidence and acting like im all that, but its not real its kind of like an act that im able to use on some girls. I never approach at all, I just pimp online and get tons of women on facebook. I got approach anxiety and its hard to imagine myself doing that especially with this being so easy.
something is telling me regaurdless what your post says, you may be a pimp online but when these girls see you more than half fizzle out in an instant.. wanna know why? cuz your pics aren't a good represenation of what you look like in real life.
That's why i'd rather meet a girl in person who's attracted to me instead of replicateing some pose and a lighteing scheme 24/7 just to validate myself to some bytch i met off the friggin internet.
sarge in person not online.. i've been in the same boat its a hit or miss when it comes to that because when i was pimpin online lets say i'd meet 5 girls 3 would be into me the others would fizzle out that night. and i'd say my looks are above average
oh and this is me
http://b0.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/00189/05/26/189366250_l.jpg
That's why i'd rather meet a girl in person who's attracted to me instead of replicateing some pose and a lighteing scheme 24/7 just to validate myself to some bytch i met off the friggin internet.
sarge in person not online.. i've been in the same boat its a hit or miss when it comes to that because when i was pimpin online lets say i'd meet 5 girls 3 would be into me the others would fizzle out that night. and i'd say my looks are above average
oh and this is me
http://b0.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/00189/05/26/189366250_l.jpg
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
it sounds like you need to focus more on building your inner game. ANYONE can be confident online because they don't really know who you are. But what you can do in person is what counts.
I say take a break from your facebook game and focus on meeting women the traditional way. Once you become consistent with that, then you can use Facebook as a tool again.
I say take a break from your facebook game and focus on meeting women the traditional way. Once you become consistent with that, then you can use Facebook as a tool again.