LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
There's a website called meetup that my sister uses. That and another site called couch surfing. There's a lot of events on meetup for my city, maybe for yours too. Not endorsing it, just showing the option.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.