"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Online love...moved to another state to be with a female

Mantis Toboggan

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JonJaper said:
Does anyone else think OP is trolling, or do guys actually throw away their whole lives for a woman they met on the internet?

This is extreme.
I tend not to trust a poster whose first post on this site is some crazy almost-unbelievable story.

But the thing about trolls is, they're not very smart (they spend their free time making up stories on the internet), so the troll will eventually out himself.

So, we'll see what he is.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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brady1124 said:
..so anyways about 6 days into us living together everything ****in changed I mean everything..

women always change... you need to expect it and be ready for it .. that means dont depend on them ever... you have learned and important lesson.. cut her off now move back home and start over..
 

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Yep, you're an idiot/AFC, thread over.
 

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Tell her to get another dog and get the hell out of there Pronto!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What part of CO are you in, and how old are you?
 

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Sounds legit me. Guys do this kind of stupid stuff all the time. One of my friends moves in with EVERY girl he starts dating, and it never works out. Others drop everything they have for girls. These are good-looking guys with options, etc.

What typically happens is, they get burned, ***** about women, and so forth - then go and do the same thing again!

To the OP: its too much too soon. Girls get infatuated, talk about the future, say you're the best thing ever, want to marry you, etc. It means nothing. Once you don't live up to the perfect image they've built up in their mind, or you become too complacent - you're no good to them. You gotta take it slow, and not fall too fast - even if they are, and complain that you aren't.
 
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