"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Online love...moved to another state to be with a female

Mantis Toboggan

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JonJaper said:
Does anyone else think OP is trolling, or do guys actually throw away their whole lives for a woman they met on the internet?

This is extreme.
I tend not to trust a poster whose first post on this site is some crazy almost-unbelievable story.

But the thing about trolls is, they're not very smart (they spend their free time making up stories on the internet), so the troll will eventually out himself.

So, we'll see what he is.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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brady1124 said:
..so anyways about 6 days into us living together everything ****in changed I mean everything..

women always change... you need to expect it and be ready for it .. that means dont depend on them ever... you have learned and important lesson.. cut her off now move back home and start over..
 

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Yep, you're an idiot/AFC, thread over.
 

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Tell her to get another dog and get the hell out of there Pronto!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What part of CO are you in, and how old are you?
 

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Sounds legit me. Guys do this kind of stupid stuff all the time. One of my friends moves in with EVERY girl he starts dating, and it never works out. Others drop everything they have for girls. These are good-looking guys with options, etc.

What typically happens is, they get burned, ***** about women, and so forth - then go and do the same thing again!

To the OP: its too much too soon. Girls get infatuated, talk about the future, say you're the best thing ever, want to marry you, etc. It means nothing. Once you don't live up to the perfect image they've built up in their mind, or you become too complacent - you're no good to them. You gotta take it slow, and not fall too fast - even if they are, and complain that you aren't.
 
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