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MillionBillionaire

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I have no basic strategy for PoF.

Do I ... Try and get their number first then get the date off line ... Do I wait until I am on the date to get the number?

Do I chit chat first or go strait for the date?

Is complimenting ok online?

Do I tease first?

Are pics with me and one other girl ok?

Does anyone here have success with the online game? If so, could you please share some tips for PoF?
 

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MillionBillionaire said:
I have no basic strategy for PoF.

Do I ... Try and get their number first then get the date off line ... Do I wait until I am on the date to get the number?

Do I chit chat first or go strait for the date?

Is complimenting ok online?

Do I tease first?

Are pics with me and one other girl ok?

Does anyone here have success with the online game? If so, could you please share some tips for PoF?
Nah, no phone number right away. There are many creeps on these sites, and the women hold their guard until you have a decent conversation.

You get the number from POF, not the date. Chit chat, yes -- make her laugh, and then ask about a date. She will say sure - don't set a definite date. Get her number! Then, later on, call her (this has been proven to be a surprise to the woman) and ask.

Pics with you and other girl? I read it was okay, because it shows your value and shows that girls want to be around you. Members on this forum usually has much better advice than any other pickup artist, so they might be able to share more advice.

I did this once -- we talked on OkCupid, joked around, and she was interested. She gave me her number, which I didn't text! This was like an attractive trait for her, somehow. She was DYING to send me a picture of her baseball game seat. I never messaged her. Then she said "You meany! I wanted to send you a picture of my seats!"

Then we talked about some other stuff, and I spelled Virginia like Virgina. We were laughing, and talked about the Mayor of Virginia is a Virgin and has a vagina. She laughed her ass off forever.

Then, I text messaged her... and said "Hi this is the Mayor of Virgina."
She was laughing so hard, it took a few minutes to reply. She said something that I can't forget. "Wow I can't handle you hahahahaha" or something.

So yeah! We met twice lol and yeah. I made a mistake by asking her feelings after the first date. She wanted to go on another date, we did. She asked if I wanted to know her feelings, and I said not really, I'm not concerned. And she was going to text me after work, but never did...

She needed someone more abusive lol and ALL these guys like 25 of them on here, told me to run away due to being manipulative. I didn't listen, and she was in-fact manipulating me.

But this worked! Small-talk (well, it was A LOT of talk and she was amazed that she even showed her friend on how much we talked, but she liked it! I asked about her tattoo's, and she went on and on.) first, phone number, setup the dates, and yeah.

I've met a few people from every site... and talked to like hundreds every site, that I wasn't interested in dating, but I did it for conversation skills. I have yet to meet someone off of PoF.
 

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Well I have been asking for the date right away without really saying anything .. So I guess I will switch to talking about something in their profile ... messaging a few times ... getting the number then getting the date.

What kind of stuff do I put in my profile?
 

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Your strategy is to meet people IN REAL LIFE and not on POF which is full of crackhead single moms.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Your strategy is to meet people IN REAL LIFE and not on POF which is full of crackhead single moms.
Which is what he will be doing... but being introduced somewhere else. I'm hoping he will be meeting women in person.
I've seen plenty of women on POF, which are mentally and emotionally stable without kids.
Crackhead single Mom's? Haha I'm guessing POF never worked out for you - you seem to be in denial and over-generalization.
 

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Try match. The free sites are a nightmare.
 

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aim to get the number within the first few messages. if they don''t give it, drop them.

once you have the number call or text a date, time and place to meet. if she doesn't agree or respond, drop her.

once you have arranged a date, time and place do not contact until a day prior to confirm the meet. if she flakes, drop her.

once you are the date proceed to IRL game.
 

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One of my chats so far ..
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MillionBillionairepofaccount
2/2/2014 3:31:00 AM

Hey.. wanna go out dancing sometime?

It'll be fun.

Whatcha say?

MillionBillionairrealname.
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Nameofgirlcontactingme
2/3/2014 9:10:30 AM

I love to dance :)
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Millionbillionairepofaccount

I want to try out salsa dancing sometime, I heard that it is reaaaallly fun...

The place I want to take you to though, is called Moose Country in St. Somethingville off Hwy. 19. The music there is GREAT and I always have a fun time when I go there.

I would love to take you sometime.

What's your #?
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waiting for a reply.

I also sent her one of my possible 2 roses I can send a month on Pof.

So far I am enjoying this online thing, even if it is just Pof.

I think my strategy will be if she gives me her number... I don't reply back and wait a few days then ask her out over the phone..
 

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On line dating is another venue...so ignore those who say "meet in real life and forget on line dating".....my suggestion is do it all.
First, no pictures with other women.
After texting on line a couple of times ...I suggest if they want to exchange numbers so we can chat. If they agree....I call them and talk. If it goes well I ask them about meeting them during the end of that same conversation. Soooo....a couple of texting on line....one phone call....and a date.
If they want to text back and forth and avoid giving you a number.....move on...they are attention b*tches and you are not going to get anywhere with them.
I do not try to be too cute or funny....a sense of humor is good...but do not over do it cause it start sounding like you are trying too hard. BTW ,,,there are a lot of flakes so be prepared for that and do not take it personally.
Best to you...Abe
 

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lover4721 said:
Then we talked about some other stuff, and I spelled Virginia like Virgina. We were laughing, and talked about the Mayor of Virginia is a Virgin and has a vagina. She laughed her ass off forever.
... is this real life?? :crazy:

MillionBillionaire said:
waiting for a reply.

I also sent her one of my possible 2 roses I can send a month on Pof.
OP, your messages are conveying that you're trying hard and a bit desperate for her attention. You should try to tone it down a bit. Send only one message at a time, keep it brief, and don't send roses. You want her to think you have other opportunities.
 

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Do I ... Try and get their number first then get the date off line ... Do I wait until I am on the date to get the number?


Get their # and call them, chat over phone instead of online.

Do I chit chat first or go strait for the date?

You don't chit chat, you make her hot. Tell her you feel like meeting her, and set it up for tonight.

Is complimenting ok online?

Why not.

Do I tease first?

It has to be a natural flow.

Are pics with me and one other girl ok?

No.

Does anyone here have success with the online game? If so, could you please share some tips for PoF?

Be wary of online or over the phone date setups, on the other end of town. :)

If she's not ready to meet you the same evening, or the next day if you chatting in the evening, that means she's full of crap. No weekend dates, tell them you helping your friends move over the weekend. Always get them out the same day, in the evening. Grab fast food, drive them to private place with nice view, roof top of parking lot for example, and escalate - easy, ask her if she wants to kill you.
 

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Yeah, listen to abe0. DO NOT TRY TO BE CUTE OR FUNNY. Avoid negs or putdowns unless she is being an outright b!tch.
 

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I keep having to check myself. Thanks for all the help guys. I am getting the hang of this.

Great tips in here.

I think the most important thing is having a good selfie picture :cheer:
 

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Having a good selfie picture-- haha.

I have a picture of me in a banana suit and it works well for some reason.

POF 4-5 email exchanges tops, then ask for the number.

If a chick asks you what you do for a living in any of the emails, flee. Golddiggas. And you ain't Kanye West.
 

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I second Hedorick....and if she is Russian.....run faster!!! I can not believe the number of times a chick will ask on the first response what I do for a living without responding directly to my original text that may include some of her hobbies. I just delete those....or tell them they have no class . But what do you expect...its internet dating.
There are some genuine good ladies there....but you really have to go through a lot of crap to find those and after a while you get better at getting rid the bottom feeders quickly. Again, this is just another venue and not a substitute for going out an meeting women. Good Luck....Abe
 

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I dated my first Russian woman last week. Good lord. It's the first time I've ever been put into the friendzone after kissing someone on the first date. Although hot, Russian women sure are awful. They love the gold, that's for sure. Chick was in school and had a nice benz. Didn't even have a job. Looks like some poor American chump was on the receiving end of a bad deal...
 

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HedoRick said:
Although hot, Russian women sure are awful. They love the gold, that's for sure.


A) Not all of them. There are many like that in USA yes, but not all, in Russia the not all part is HUGE.

B) There is no such nationality as Russian. Russia is a country of 80+ nationalities. I have never seen a pure Russian, no such thing, don't exist. That means that Russian women are diverse.

C) Are you sure she wasn't Ukrainian? Because over here I get that whenever I try to hump a Ukrainian chick.
 
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