"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Online Girls Move On So Damn Quick!

Solomon

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I hear you man, my last online plate was at best a HB7, but boy was the sex amazing, this chick loved to be dominated, and there was NOTHING she would not do sex wise..

Things just when dramatically down hill, when she decided she wanted more commitment..

The sex just stopped, heck she wouldn't even talk about sex anymore..

Then the hot/cold games started.. In the end, I decided to walk away..

Man I still feel like trying to reel her back in.. ONLY for the sex

Chances are she is taking dikz elsewhere now.. These desperate online girls, don't hang around long.
Why you surprised at least you got laid

Women don't have sex just for sex, eventually they want something more

I had a girl who was smarter than your chick, she wanted the commitment first before she put out needless to say after 1 date and hanging out once at my house I never say that bytch again
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I believe there is a certain level of disrespect from women towards men regarding online dating. They dont know you from anywhere else, and they know they have 5 other guys waiting in line in case things go sideways with you, so they will have no problem flaking on you, ghosting you or just disappear on you if they want.
Its just the nature of the online game.
 

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I believe there is a certain level of disrespect from women towards men regarding online dating. They dont know you from anywhere else, and they know they have 5 other guys waiting in line in case things go sideways with you, so they will have no problem flaking on you, ghosting you or just disappear on you if they want.
Its just the nature of the online game.
It's not disrespect, it's just consumerism for you. Relationships are commodified.
 
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I believe there is a certain level of disrespect from women towards men regarding online dating. They dont know you from anywhere else, and they know they have 5 other guys waiting in line in case things go sideways with you, so they will have no problem flaking on you, ghosting you or just disappear on you if they want.
Its just the nature of the online game.
so lower standards? why would they go for 5 other guys if you are 2 times more fit than them(unless they are rich/vgoodlooking)

but i agree, OLD is ****yy
 

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Why you surprised at least you got laid

Women don't have sex just for sex, eventually they want something more

I had a girl who was smarter than your chick, she wanted the commitment first before she put out needless to say after 1 date and hanging out once at my house I never say that bytch again
Well this one is not commitment worthy dude.. Too many red flags.. But I missed a trick here.. I should have PRETENDED to give her commitment..

Just played along with it, as long as I was getting crazy sex off her, it's worth giving her a few commitment scraps.

What put me off was, she used manipulation in order to get commitment.. Witholding sex, flaking etc..

Your points are valid though.. You are more likely to be disrespected, played with, flaked on by online girls, as they have way too many options, and do not give a fuk about trampling over your feelings.

Even the fatties have a inflated sense of entitlement..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well this one is not commitment worthy dude.. Too many red flags.. But I missed a trick here.. I should have PRETENDED to give her commitment..

Just played along with it, as long as I was getting crazy sex off her, it's worth giving her a few commitment scraps.

What put me off was, she used manipulation in order to get commitment.. Witholding sex, flaking etc..

Your points are valid though.. You are more likely to be disrespected, played with, flaked on by online girls, as they have way too many options, and do not give a fuk about trampling over your feelings.

Even the fatties have a inflated sense of entitlement..
agree with the fatties part LOL
 

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Well this one is not commitment worthy dude.. Too many red flags.. But I missed a trick here.. I should have PRETENDED to give her commitment..

Just played along with it, as long as I was getting crazy sex off her, it's worth giving her a few commitment scraps.

What put me off was, she used manipulation in order to get commitment.. Witholding sex, flaking etc...
She started to spin her web the first day you banged her. It worked, you're talking about her a lot, making constant threads about her, wishing you could have the sex again. The kinky all in sex is what does it.

You think you could have "played along", but you would have eventually gotten stuck in her toxic web.
 
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