“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Online Girls Move On So Damn Quick!

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They just throw more quarters in the c0ck carousel. Not to mention they are probably low self esteem and NOT financially or emotionally independent. They can't stand to be alone so they skip through relationships until they can chain a man down for her personal benefit.

Look at it as a dodged bullet.

Well this chick was trying to lock me down with commitment within 2 months!

I felt a sense of urgency in her.. she seemed somewhat desperate for a relationship and for a man to SAVE her!

I knew she had some financial problems, also she talked about losing her job in the new year..

she came on strong.. sex within 30 minutes of meeting me..


This is what most of the online chicks are like.. Looking for a saviour from there miserable lifes.

They will show very high interest, but if you don't give her what she wants?

puff.. That chick is gone in an instant, back on online, riding the c0ck carousel and looking for her NEXT saviour..

these girls are serious sloots man.. Be cautious!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Sounds like your
I'm talking from personal experience..

The last online chick I was seeing, she was back online POF two days after me and her ended..

Only one week later, her profile has come off it again.. She must have met someone, and is now banging him.

The next dude will not even realise, that only a few weeks ago, I was busting a nut in her aZZ and she certainly will not be telling him about this fact.. The next dude will probably believe he has found a good woman lol


Seriously man I have come to the conclusion any chick who has been online for some considerable time, has probably had a massive amount of diks inside her.

It's shocking how easily they go from man to man, without a care in the world.

I am ruling out online girls for a RS completely!
Sounds like the typical chick that is currently riding the c^ock carousel and you were just one of the ponies.

Don't be too surprised. Stay on POF and your bound to meet dozens more
 

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Sounds like your

Sounds like the typical chick that is currently riding the c^ock carousel and you were just one of the ponies.

Don't be too surprised. Stay on POF and your bound to meet dozens more

If a chick is new to online dating, has only just joined, and you manage to take her off there, within a couple of weeks..

There maybe a possibility she isn't a raging slvt.

If she has been on there for some months.. more than likely has a very high c0ck count.
 

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If a chick is new to online dating, has only just joined, and you manage to take her off there, within a couple of weeks..

There maybe a possibility she isn't a raging slvt.

If she has been on there for some months.. more than likely has a very high c0ck count.
Girls stop caring what guys think the minute they get flooded with validation. Like people have said dozens of times here, even a moderate looking girl will get tons of thirsty guys giving them attention.
 

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If a chick is new to online dating, has only just joined, and you manage to take her off there, within a couple of weeks...
I think you would be surprised at how many (most?) women keep OLD options open past the exclusivity conversation. Maybe not necessarily the site/app you met her off. They're always looking for an upgrade. Her spidey sense will kick in if you go beta or stop living up to your potential as a man, get lazy, or too comfortable. Interest level is always the biggest indicator of her investment in you.

I thought I had my last main plate on lock down after a few months of hooking up to find out she dropped me within a fortnight when she went soft-next for other orbiters from either social media or OLD when I acted out of scarcity after dropping my plates for her after exclusivity talk. Lesson learned. She told me in conversation about her Tinder account, but I tried to give that no mind. I suspected she frequently browsed Tinder in between the weekly dates. I did try my best to not give a f. Feels are strong when the sechs is good...

I would say be cautious with OLD chicks. I know most SS aren't LTR/exclusive-minded, yet for me, frequent or constant OLD/social media access by a plate to me is a red flag if I'm thinking of long-term and not just for the short-term lay.
 

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I find what happens with these girls is:

They date you pretty much excl for 4-6 weeks, usually 4.

They reason because they are fvcking one guy they aren't a sloot.

They find something fickle and petty they "don't like" about the guy.

On to the next one.

Totally concur with this.. these chicks will just find the pettiest of things, and move onto her next knight in shining armour!

More than likely she will shower the next one immediately with kinky freaky sex, just too hook him in..
 
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Totally concur with this.. these chicks will just find the pettiest of things, and move onto her next knight in shining armour!

More than likely she will shower the next one immediately with kinky freaky sex, just too hook him in..
Okay so how come no one's wanting to hook me in? You make it sound like getting free sex is easy.
 

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Okay so how come no one's wanting to hook me in? You make it sound like getting free sex is easy.

All depends on your profile.. You need to have good pics.. If you workout, that really helps..

These online hoes trip over themselves for a hench fit looking dude.
 
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All depends on your profile.. You need to have good pics.. If you workout, that really helps..

These online hoes trip over themselves for a hench fit looking dude.
Oh.

I'm not muscular. I'm trying to play the "rich guy" angle. I don't know if it will work.

I don't have motivation to lift weights regularly to get muscular just to attract some girls. It serves no purpose in my life. It's not like I need it for a job.
 

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Oh.

I'm not muscular. I'm trying to play the "rich guy" angle. I don't know if it will work.

I don't have motivation to lift weights regularly to get muscular just to attract some girls. It serves no purpose in my life. It's not like I need it for a job.

Dude, you do NOT lift, just to get girls... getting more attention from girls is just a by product of being in awesome shape!

Training helps improve your life in many ways.. Increased stamina, increased confidence..

You are physically and mentally strong.. People respect you heaps more..

Dudes tend not to fuk with you... most importantly you feel so much more healthier!

You want to do better online?

Embrace The Iron..
 

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The last online chick I was seeing, she was back online POF two days after me and her ended..

Only one week later, her profile has come off it again.. She must have met someone, and is now banging him.
Exact same pattern i've noticed. Even more disturbing when this happens after sex. That is your first clue to the type of person you've been actually involved with. Very scary to think about.

Online dating is to be avoided completely unless you are capable of banging these chicks and staying 100% emotionally unattached to them.
 
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Online dating is to be avoided completely unless you are capable of banging these chicks and staying 100% emotionally unattached to them.
I can do this!!!

It's easy. Do you know how many prostitutes I've ****ed? Sex is meaningless to me. I wish I was allowed to use sexual language on POF so I could let the girls know that I'm down for that.

Maybe it's not too late for me to live the dream....
 

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I can do this!!!

It's easy. Do you know how many prostitutes I've ****ed? Sex is meaningless to me. I wish I was allowed to use sexual language on POF so I could let the girls know that I'm down for that.

Maybe it's not too late for me to live the dream....
While I can't jump on the prostitue bandwagon, I agree that getting to a place where you actually understand what sex is, simply a very pleasurable and intense experience in the moment, and not some special disney type of thing, you're a better man for it. Although there are days where I hate this, too.
 

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Exact same pattern i've noticed. Even more disturbing when this happens after sex. That is your first clue to the type of person you've been actually involved with. Very scary to think about.

Online dating is to be avoided completely unless you are capable of banging these chicks and staying 100% emotionally unattached to them.
Well in my case this girl came straight to my house first date, with no public meet.

She dropped her nickers within 30 mins and I bust a nut in her Azz...

Girl even bought heels and stockings first meet haha..

Then she was surprised and shocked when I did not want to commit to her..

These online girls live in cloud fuking cuckoo land.. They behave like complete hoes and somehow still believe a dude should commit to her and treat her like a lady.. WTF

I can pretty much guarantee, she banged the next guy within the first date too..

There puzzy is there only commodity, as most of them have nothing else to offer..

They have no career, no social life.. looks wise, they are heading downhill fast..

I think i have more respect for prostitutes, than most of this online chicks..

It's shocking how many of them are willing to come to my house for a first date.. lol
 

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I've dated 2 on POF (before I swallowed the red pill).

First hb7 - moved her in after 8 months. Broke up on our 1 year. Still banged for a few weeks after occasionally. She would do her laundry and fold mine, we bang and the she would leave. That was at the end of the relationship. Recently ran into her again at a park. She later told me that about 2 weeks after banging me for the last time, she was banging another dude an hour away. Then got engaged to another dude about a month later. Wanted to come back - Ha! No way. But that was a couple weeks after the last time I gave it to her.

Second hb5 - Really really liked this one. Post wall 2 kids nasty divorce still proceeding. Nice body and sweet heart. Banged nonstop. Asked if she was a robot a few times. Said I was the best ever. Was taking a test boost at the time. Would literally go at it 4 times per night. It was great. She had her place I had mine. Had some beta tendency overcome me at one point shortly after she told me she was recovering from METH. Husband and family were the hook up. Never done anything other than weed myself. She had been a user for 3 years daily. One night she wouldn't respond to text or call. I got pretty upset and broke it off but still banged her a few more times. I kid you not, it was a Thursday that I banged her and didn't get a response from her (and didn't send a text) for over a week. Finally I broke down and checked on her. She said she had moved on over a week ago. Ugh. She had very low value too, barely a job, losing her house, no money, tattoos everywhere, not very attractive face wise and put on 20 lbs in the 3 months that we were dating. Didn't make sense to me at all and still boggles me how she didn't seem to care one bit.

That was when I picked up The Rationale Male and finished it about 1 week ago now.

I get that meth messes people up and I surely dodged a bullet but god I liked banging her. She was a real sport. And it really didn't make sense about her lack of caring as I was much higher value, looks, money, assets, social. Her entire family loved me. I was like the best guy she has had. Yet, silence from her. It's been about 20 days or so (doing the NC challenge as well).

Sucks but now I know a little better. It's plates and some will fall and it will hurt.

Both girls are off of POF and pretty much the only 2 I have dated and slept with post divorce about 2 1/2 years now.
 

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I m a big fan of OLD in its place ie practice, sex and orbiters. I do share the general opinion of POF low grade trashy chicks who r going to seriously damage your perception of womankind.
 

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They all have terrible reviews. I wouldn't recommend paying for one. POF is the only one that I know of that allows you to see the photos and chat.

Don't focus too much on the headline or profile.

My profession I put "six figures". Let them ask later..

Do have the best pics available but do not make eye contact with the camera. (Weird study showed better luck and it does help)

It's a strategy from there as far as messaging.

I do a blanket method. I pick the 6-8s. I send them all the same message.

I go bold. ( I'll get to that in a sec )

After I blanket the community, I pay attention to who has viewed me. (Special note here - turn off the viewed me function in your profile. You can see who viewed you but they cannot see that you viewed them. We like to look back and see who we are talking to but it creeps them out when their viewed me gets populated with your photo over and over. Easy setting to shut off in your edit profile area. Trust me on that one)

If the ones that have viewed you don't respond, shoot them a second message. Gotta make them laugh/keep it light..always.

If they engage in convo, give them your number shortly after the small talk but I tell them please don't feel obligated to text/call. (I had 1 that wasn't comfortable, all others lit up my phone immediately).

After that, let's meet. I think the next day, if possible. If you can't do it the next day, wait to message until the day before you can meet. Too far out and she'll fall off and so may you.

Now, for the opener I use, you will probably think I'm crazy but I have received the most dates with this one - "I would totally date the shyt outta you"

I have others too but that opener has generated many positive responses, dates, and had some great many banging nights. It sets the tone for light but you know what I want (and so does she).

Hope this helps.
 

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I've dated 2 on POF (before I swallowed the red pill).

First hb7 - moved her in after 8 months. Broke up on our 1 year. Still banged for a few weeks after occasionally. She would do her laundry and fold mine, we bang and the she would leave. That was at the end of the relationship. Recently ran into her again at a park. She later told me that about 2 weeks after banging me for the last time, she was banging another dude an hour away. Then got engaged to another dude about a month later. Wanted to come back - Ha! No way. But that was a couple weeks after the last time I gave it to her.

Second hb5 - Really really liked this one. Post wall 2 kids nasty divorce still proceeding. Nice body and sweet heart. Banged nonstop. Asked if she was a robot a few times. Said I was the best ever. Was taking a test boost at the time. Would literally go at it 4 times per night. It was great. She had her place I had mine. Had some beta tendency overcome me at one point shortly after she told me she was recovering from METH. Husband and family were the hook up. Never done anything other than weed myself. She had been a user for 3 years daily. One night she wouldn't respond to text or call. I got pretty upset and broke it off but still banged her a few more times. I kid you not, it was a Thursday that I banged her and didn't get a response from her (and didn't send a text) for over a week. Finally I broke down and checked on her. She said she had moved on over a week ago. Ugh. She had very low value too, barely a job, losing her house, no money, tattoos everywhere, not very attractive face wise and put on 20 lbs in the 3 months that we were dating. Didn't make sense to me at all and still boggles me how she didn't seem to care one bit.

That was when I picked up The Rationale Male and finished it about 1 week ago now.

I get that meth messes people up and I surely dodged a bullet but god I liked banging her. She was a real sport. And it really didn't make sense about her lack of caring as I was much higher value, looks, money, assets, social. Her entire family loved me. I was like the best guy she has had. Yet, silence from her. It's been about 20 days or so (doing the NC challenge as well).

Sucks but now I know a little better. It's plates and some will fall and it will hurt.

Both girls are off of POF and pretty much the only 2 I have dated and slept with post divorce about 2 1/2 years now.

I hear you man, my last online plate was at best a HB7, but boy was the sex amazing, this chick loved to be dominated, and there was NOTHING she would not do sex wise..

Things just when dramatically down hill, when she decided she wanted more commitment..

The sex just stopped, heck she wouldn't even talk about sex anymore..

Then the hot/cold games started.. In the end, I decided to walk away..

Man I still feel like trying to reel her back in.. ONLY for the sex

Chances are she is taking dikz elsewhere now.. These desperate online girls, don't hang around long.
 
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