Almost had one on online dating were talking for weeks and then we set a day to meet up for coffee. Night before she emails me she sick and has a headach. We should reschedule. I gess this could be possible. Probably just a nice way of blowing me off. I wrote here back said okay let me know. Hope you feel better soon. What do you guys think is it just a nice way of backing out of it. Or she found another guy probably.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
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From experience from online dating, 9 times out of 10 the excuses are BS and they are just politely flaking (it's not really polite though it's an outright lie and she's probably got someone else lined up). Usually occurs on the day or the day before.
As above, if you feel it worthwhile you can try again after 4 days or so and see how she's feeling. If she responds go for a reschedule. If she gives some other BS excuse delete her number. I've half given up on the two flake rule for online dating though (especially first date).
As above, if you feel it worthwhile you can try again after 4 days or so and see how she's feeling. If she responds go for a reschedule. If she gives some other BS excuse delete her number. I've half given up on the two flake rule for online dating though (especially first date).
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The girl I've been talking to for the last week has a cold. She called in sick to work Friday. I told her we could reschedule for Saturday, she said no she wants to meet anyway. Point being, this girl's story is very likely bullsh*t. If she wants to meet she'll make it happen. I'd try again in a few days, but as stated if you get another excuse, drop.