"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bassmasterzac

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Alright guys whats the best approach once you get a girls number off a dating site?

Dont message back and call her at your expense? If so in how many days?

Send a playful text? If so, do you banter or just say bla bla bla this is my number?

Repy back on the dating site and then call/text her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jurry

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As long as youre not being a needy creepo i honestly dont think it matters whatsoever what you say online or in person. Just go with what comes to ya brother, if they dont like it well who really gives a fvck anyway theres 100 more behind her.
 

Bassmasterzac

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Haha alright man thanks, how long should the phone call be and should i talk about anything or just schedule a date?
 

jurry

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I dont bother with phone call most of the time, just give them a place and time over the app or txt em a bit. A blind first date should nearly be an inconvenience for you.. And your effort in making it happen should reflect that. Like "ohh yea was gona meet that chick for a drink" kind of thing, if it happens cool if not whatever next.
 
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