"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Online game" not for everyone?

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Okay, so I've been thinking. But I want you guys to hear me out before you jump to conclusions. I don't really use the internet for the soul pupose of hooking up with girls on internet communities etc.. however it has happened a few times unexpectedly. I'm sure it has to us all. You meet a girl on myspace, possibly she adds you and seems reallyt interested, you decide to meet and hit it off.. etc..

Well I was on the msterymethod forum just browsing.. and apparently they have a whole forum dedicated to "online game". I was reading a few articles.. some of it sounds legit. A lot of it is just a way to "meet" them.. or get their number rather.. then meet them. Once you meet them face to face.. that's where the REAL game begins.. anyway.

I was thinking that this can't work for everyone. No matter how mack daddy you are on the keyboard. I think a lot of it has to do with your pictures. Like, I'm not ugly or anything. I think I'm fairly decent looking.. I've just noticed that the only people who really are successful with online gaming are the emo fags (no, that's not a typo... their are some emo kids that actually are pretty good at hooking up with other emo chicks.. which is kinda what i like. but im starting to mov eon to more... um.. less drmatic girls?) or the dudes with huge visible muscles with their shirts off.. meat head kinda dudes. Idk. it's kinda been hurting my game a little bit. Like I have been getting a few numbers, having a decent conversation with some. But it's like whenever you try to "hang out" they never wanna hang out.. or when you do hangout.. they always wanna bring a fri end... or the worst.. you actually do hang out.. but it's a "buddy-buddy" hangout.. even though you've made it apparently obvious that you're not there to be her "friend".

does anyone else agree? i don't know why im tripping over this ****. maybe i am taking it too seriously. it does kinda make me a little jealous when i see other dudes successfully getting teh pvssy, off myspace. but i don't think it really has anything to do with game at all... more a matter of what pictures you have up.. heh.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You can read my thread. I think it has allot to do with the pics that are up.
I'm still testing this out, because it could also depend on the venue that you are using and how serious the people are in meeting quality people.

My interim judgement for now is that I think the photo is more important than the profile or what you write.
 

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I don't see how any guys meet women online. I've had a profile up on Yahoo Personals for several months, and I haven't met any women on there. I've contacted plenty of women, but they never reply. I'm not an ugly guy by any means, either. So I know it has nothing to do with my picture.

Same goes for MySpace. Unless you have a lot friends on there, I don't see how you could meet women. From my experience, women just don't randomly contact guys on the Internet.
 
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knglerxt said:
I don't see how any guys meet women online. I've had a profile up on Yahoo Personals for several months, and I haven't met any women on there. I've contacted plenty of women, but they never reply. I'm not an ugly guy by any means, either. So I know it has nothing to do with my picture.
Dont overestimate your picture. Have you got it checked out in hotornot?

It's not about being ugly, it's about being an average joe, unless you are really a muscular stud, or someone out of a men's fashion magazine, then the profile gets looked over. Since women are way more pickier than men, including photos, and including the fact they get emailed all the time and know they can get a date virtually anytime they are just become like premadonnas, so unless you are the top 5% of attractive guys, you get no results and you may as well look ugly since ugly and average is the same when it comes to online stuff. Otherwise, work on your profile?

I think perhaps on the online venue, women have a sence of entitlement, and otherwise decent guys simply get looked over since they get so much male attention that they dont value the emails unless you stand out from the average joe and have real studly pics with a stand-out profile, but try different sites out.

knglerxt said:
Same goes for MySpace. Unless you have a lot friends on there, I don't see how you could meet women. From my experience, women just don't randomly contact guys on the Internet.
I went on plentyoffish, and noticed guys who most successful had strong frame and a muscular build.
 
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