"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good advice, Second Half. I think I'm going to have to take that for myself! Now, I just have to get to that 3 dates a week...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SecondHalf said:
Friends are worried you're potentially vulnerable are they?
Maybe they're right, maybe not.

Dating sites are a little addictive and ... easy!
It's like shooting 'gina's out of a barrel.

If you start going out with 3+ women a week to the point life, friends and family fall behind ... think ...

If your multiple dates or even a female individual start to cause cancellations in your life ... think ...

If in a couple weeks or a month you feel larger than life and if you dig deep and realize the only thing you've accomplished is ... think ...

My advice is ... set a date for yourself, like +1 year from now. Make it a hard fast rule that nobody gets the heart. If the heart starts to manipulate you, time to change plates, or maybe listen to your friends!

See women, seduce them, sure ... just keep control of your feelings and Mr. Denial!

SH
Excellant advice! Thank you.
 
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