"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Vikman

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I recently met a girl online. I need to know something. What kind of stuff should I say to have a good online conversation?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Metaphysical

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get her talking about herself.

women love to talk about themselves. #1 most important thing in your game.
 

chinwaggler

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go to RSD and search online there's loads of threads with what people have said. Mainly be funny and sexual. It's easy because you have so much time to think about it.
 

COD

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naw........email tag takes way to long..........

what was your purpose for emailing this girl.............GET HER IM NAME and talk to her there, much faster and then opt for her digits.

EMAIL 2 FEMALE my friend..............why live in virtual when U can talk and then see this chic live.

Emails serve a few purposes;

1) to entice initially

2) call to action (hint for her digits, setting up a meet n greet)

3) to express thoughts (disagreement, thanx for the, breakup resons,etc)

4) RELAY INFO (contact info, address, pictures, time/date confirmation,etc)

5) REMINDER-to keep the focus on you should an opportunity present itself.


communication should be instant (IM, texting, phone call, face to face)
 

Vikman

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I never said anything about email, all I asked what convo tips for talking online. No email.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Duffdog

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Heres the best tip ever. Just give her your phone number and tell her to call you.

Then, talk to her on the phone and invite her to do something fun.
 
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