"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Online Dating

Vikman

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I recently met a girl online. I need to know something. What kind of stuff should I say to have a good online conversation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Metaphysical

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get her talking about herself.

women love to talk about themselves. #1 most important thing in your game.
 

chinwaggler

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go to RSD and search online there's loads of threads with what people have said. Mainly be funny and sexual. It's easy because you have so much time to think about it.
 

COD

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naw........email tag takes way to long..........

what was your purpose for emailing this girl.............GET HER IM NAME and talk to her there, much faster and then opt for her digits.

EMAIL 2 FEMALE my friend..............why live in virtual when U can talk and then see this chic live.

Emails serve a few purposes;

1) to entice initially

2) call to action (hint for her digits, setting up a meet n greet)

3) to express thoughts (disagreement, thanx for the, breakup resons,etc)

4) RELAY INFO (contact info, address, pictures, time/date confirmation,etc)

5) REMINDER-to keep the focus on you should an opportunity present itself.


communication should be instant (IM, texting, phone call, face to face)
 

Vikman

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I never said anything about email, all I asked what convo tips for talking online. No email.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Duffdog

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Heres the best tip ever. Just give her your phone number and tell her to call you.

Then, talk to her on the phone and invite her to do something fun.
 
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