Online Dating

[aussiegoat55]

So to increase my influx of women and have multiple plates spinning I decided to use the interent, mainly craigslist.org

For all the girls that I have emailed, very few have responded back. Does anybody else have this problem or it might be that something that I am doing? Girls have said before that they get hundreds of replies so maybe they're overwhelmed, in which I'm now going to wait a several days before I respond so I appear as an individual email instead of one lost in the masses. Back to my point, it might be something I'm doing.

- I occasionally give my actual name.
- I occasionally give my picture. I am a good looking guy, got a 9.2/10 on HotorNot just to make sure, haha. My picture does not have a penis in it, not a body shot, not a self portrait, nor does it have a car in it.
- I never tell them how beautiful they are, no compliments of the sort.

I want some help, and would be willing to send you the original ad and my reply because this is confusing. Thanks.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Try searching the forum for Internet of online dating.

 

[COD]

SHEESH DUDE...........ITS YOUR EMAIL...........design a cool email and send it out to as many chics as possible. If it is orignial and cool enough GUARANTEED to get a lot of responses.

Ok so where do I get cut n paste clever emails that reap success (the book DaVagina Code...google it) tons of actual emails that you can steal and use and it even shows the actual responses.

Heres another problem for you to ponder-KNOW WHAT TO SAY when u get their reponse, have you thought about if you got 20 phone numbers waiting in your inbox. Get out a day planner, keep all the names straight with #'s and pictures, write down height, weight and where they reside.

Extrapolating a number online requires a few emails....if you are really good you can extract it in the very first email, most guys get it in two or three.

I have also found women are more likely to part with thier IM chat names in an email much quicker than their #'s. Services like yahoo or msn..then once in a chat conversation with you........almost all of them part with their digits.

Where can I get actual words to use in IM conversations----again the book Davagina code....or even here in this forum. Trust me when I started out with internet dating then finally got it.......I had 34 chics all at once begging me to call em. Sometimes (although not recomended here) you may hand out your number so they call you...its cool coming home at night and getting a dozen messages from chics.

So lets recap shall we.........

1) research, get some lines from numerous books or posts on here

2) cut n paste 50 emails to various women, making sure to personalize it a bit to avoid cookie cutter type

3) yes women get flooded with coutless emails.......I still made it through and so can you......it all cums down to that email template you design.

4) have a planner so you know who you are talking to, write down her info and call them up and start making dates.

5) try a differnet dating site........theres over 1200 dating sites so pick one.

6) you goal is to maximize your online time to reap the most women in the shortest amount of time with the least amount of effort.

what are some resurces: NET TO BED SYSTEM, EMAIL TO FEMALE, DAVAGINA CODE, BECOME AN ONLINE PICK-UP ARTIST, DAVID DEANGELO NET DATING SYSTEM......or right here....although you get soooooooo many conflicting responses and only a few of them work.


let me know how if this works for you...........one more thing.......online dating is the lazy mans way of getting chics. You still gotta do cold apporaches and clubs to defeat your fear

 

[Cash37]

Hit up Myspace dude... Craigslist has too many spammers on it.

On myspace, since you say your good looking, it should be no problem.

Make a GOOD profile, that doesnt turn women off.

Find women you like.

Write GOOD emails that get OPENED and not DELETED.

Then attract them and its on like Donkey King.

 

[RyKnOw]

Id say the only good thing your doing on there is putting your picture up..You end up getting more replies when you have a decent pic..Tho you should never disclose your name till you start talking to them more..Other than that does anyone get replies from dudes...Cause thats more annoying then anything..

 

[aussiegoat55]

Id say the only good thing your doing on there is putting your picture up..You end up getting more replies when you have a decent pic..Tho you should never disclose your name till you start talking to them more..Other than that does anyone get replies from dudes...Cause thats more annoying then anything..

Well, one of the main reasons I don't give my pic is to be a challenge and play sort of a power struggle in which I get her to send me her pic first. The women describe themselves as 5' 6", 135 lbs, brown hair, green eyes.

So what I respond to them having no picture is this...

[[You didn't provide a pic, so I don't feel obligated either, but you did use words to describe your appearance, and I play fair so, here are my words... *I AM the perfect world you talk of.]]

*She had said "In a perfect world, you would be taller than me, with stubble, etc..."

Was my response rude, too arrogant? Or maybe it was the fact that I didn't give my pic?

 

[RyKnOw]

*I AM the perfect world you talk of.

That is kind of cheesy.. I guess its good she replied instead of thinking your some kind of doushe with pickup lines.. One thing I always see on there is the whole "your pic gets mine"..Tho like I said a picture does get more results. Then again try some of the dating sites out there..But I understand then you would have to pay for them and there is three things you shouldnt pay for in this world and thats woman,porn,water

 

[aussiegoat55]

To COD:

Thanks for the advice. My emails are interesting and original so a lack of responses is frustrating, I'm just looking for other variables that might be bringing me down. I think I may come off as rude and too ****y/arrogant and not enough funny but this is something I'm going to experiment with and see what different results I get.

I agree, online dating is the lazy man's way of getting chics, I think unconsciosuly I'm gravitating more towards online because of how easy it is when I should really be out there chatting it up and spitting game, haha. Online dating should online supplement your cold approaches. Agreed, I'm to try and limit how much I spend on the computer.

Thanks again.

 

[aussiegoat55]

That is kind of cheesy.. I guess its good she replied instead of thinking your some kind of doushe with pickup lines.. One thing I always see on there is the whole "your pic gets mine"..Tho like I said a picture does get more results. Then again try some of the dating sites out there..But I understand then you would have to pay for them and there is three things you shouldnt pay for in this world and thats woman,porn,water

There seems to be a misterunderstanding.

She had an ad that said "In a perfect world my man would be x, y, and z..."

I responded to the ad by saying, "Well, you didn't send a pic so I don't feel obligated, but I play fair, so lets just say I am the perfect world you talk of."

And that was it, she didn't reply back.

And what I wrote was cheesy? Okay, well thanks for a second opinion, this is what I need to hear.

 

[RyKnOw]

okay I thought you sent that to her as like a pickup line..Just be like you are when you are in a bar picking up chicks..That and get out more..

 

[aussiegoat55]

So I did some investingating on the subject.

I posted a response as a female with an attractive pic of some random woman. Yes this is somewhat dishonest and I did not have persmission to use this one girl's picture, but I posted this ad about 6:00PM, when I got back home, my inbox was full of 60 emails, that's a lot, this was all in the time period of just 3 hours. I'm going through them and most are unoriginal and the guys talk about themselves. Some use cliche's such as night on the town, down to earth, outgoing. The subject titles are usually generic. No wonder I don't get a response, they are overwhelmed with emails.

Haha, as I'm reading them now, and deleting them, more are coming in, haha.

Well, I'll report back. Back to the reading material.

 

[Sexual]

If a woman has slutty pics on the net it's not likely she'll respond to a guy. Those guys are as helpless as you, so don't listen to what they write.

I actually have done this and internet game is an actual ART, just like field game is. Some guys living in the past will disagree, but it's a gold mine if you know how to do it right. I hate using the internet because your success is tenfold better in the field, but I can give you guys advice. This is for guys that actually look above a 5, want to be more selective about the women they run into, and don't spend their life looking for love on the net... it's just sad. Yes, I am bored right now.

OK, this is a bunch of ideas and skills you can stick to that me and a buddy (who's much better than me with fukcing chicks from net game) plus a good female friend of mine put together.

Some basic rules and advice with internet dating
1. All guys send the SAME SHYT at first. It's quick to make a forward advance without rapport, it's all starting with "hey you like animals?? I looooove dogs!" talking about how much they have in common, and they ask the same stupid **** that they would ask a chick in person - BUT THIS TIME, THEY CAN'T EVEN BE SEXUAL TOWARDS HER! No attraction whatsoever. My ex girlfriend is a model and I'd sit there with her and laugh at what some pu$$ies wrote.

2. Do not laugh (LOL, HAHA, SMILEY) at everything (OR MOST THINGS) in every sentence. It's lame. It doesn't work. Please don't make me say more. Do you laugh nonstop in real life? Lameass.

3. Start slow. Stay slow. Hi, how was your day? Never ask her to meet unless she does, but you can say what you're doing that night to maybe give her initiative, like "Ok, I have to go get in the shower to get ready. Tonight I'm going to The Bank nightclub with some buddies, they have 5 dollar martinis! If you come out bring some hotties for my buddies, and I'll get back to you about that blah blah..." Be truly interested in what she says, stay short with what you say about yourself, really read her messages and even do some research to have intelligent conversations with her so maybe she'll even learn more about herself. Ask about things that her best friends don't know.

4. Message MANY women for trial and error so you can improve and cut your losses.

5. PICTURES. Flexing pictures are gay, chump, and sometimes intimidating. Sitting at your computer with your glasses on and your belly hanging out is... lol, you know what it is. Too many pictures will be boring. Not enough and from angles is like (ok, this guy is only showing me what he wants me to see). A girl I used to hook up with told me all about how she'd go crazy over a net picture of me doing something with my black labrador and a picture of me with my nephew. Surfing or wakeboarding (active) pictures are gold. Makes you look like less of a loser (because this isn't school, you start with a 50 - F instead of a 100%). They eat that **** up.

6. If you ask me personally, it's all stupid. MAKE AN OPPORTUNITY to somehow show up at the same event that they do after you get a rapport with her and know what she likes, and use ACTUAL GAME. Facebook is INCREDIBLE for this. USE SOMETHING LIKE GUNWICH METHOD.

Alright, I'm no guru. But this crap works.

 

[COD]

for the last time

i hate to say this, but if you want a simple ****y AND FUNNY lines that reap countless sucess........the book DaVagina code has about 50 of em.

THEY WORK, THEY ARE SILLY I know this is a easy cheat code but when U need quick results..........by all means copy word for word.

TRUST ME ON THIS ONE.......and I guarantee you be like DUDE.....OMG you were right I got tons of email.

The recon profile (you post a pic of a chic and tons of guys respond) has too many loser men that never make it past the delete pile.

David Deangelo has a few cool lines, Net 2 Bed has almost no templates to use, theres another one .....cant recall the name but he has a few good ones, But DaVagina code.....this guy went to town on email to female lines.........and they work cause I tried em myself.

 

[rjones]

What if its some girls that you knew from school a couple years ago and they liked you alot but you never really talked to them? What kind of messages would you send them?

Thanks for the help

 

[RyKnOw]

If a woman has slutty pics on the net it's not likely she'll respond to a guy. Those guys are as helpless as you, so don't listen to what they write.

I actually have done this and internet game is an actual ART, just like field game is. Some guys living in the past will disagree, but it's a gold mine if you know how to do it right. I hate using the internet because your success is tenfold better in the field, but I can give you guys advice. This is for guys that actually look above a 5, want to be more selective about the women they run into, and don't spend their life looking for love on the net... it's just sad. Yes, I am bored right now.

OK, this is a bunch of ideas and skills you can stick to that me and a buddy (who's much better than me with fukcing chicks from net game) plus a good female friend of mine put together.

Some basic rules and advice with internet dating
1. All guys send the SAME SHYT at first. It's quick to make a forward advance without rapport, it's all starting with "hey you like animals?? I looooove dogs!" talking about how much they have in common, and they ask the same stupid **** that they would ask a chick in person - BUT THIS TIME, THEY CAN'T EVEN BE SEXUAL TOWARDS HER! No attraction whatsoever. My ex girlfriend is a model and I'd sit there with her and laugh at what some pu$$ies wrote.

2. Do not laugh (LOL, HAHA, SMILEY) at everything (OR MOST THINGS) in every sentence. It's lame. It doesn't work. Please don't make me say more. Do you laugh nonstop in real life? Lameass.

3. Start slow. Stay slow. Hi, how was your day? Never ask her to meet unless she does, but you can say what you're doing that night to maybe give her initiative, like "Ok, I have to go get in the shower to get ready. Tonight I'm going to The Bank nightclub with some buddies, they have 5 dollar martinis! If you come out bring some hotties for my buddies, and I'll get back to you about that blah blah..." Be truly interested in what she says, stay short with what you say about yourself, really read her messages and even do some research to have intelligent conversations with her so maybe she'll even learn more about herself. Ask about things that her best friends don't know.

4. Message MANY women for trial and error so you can improve and cut your losses.

5. PICTURES. Flexing pictures are gay, chump, and sometimes intimidating. Sitting at your computer with your glasses on and your belly hanging out is... lol, you know what it is. Too many pictures will be boring. Not enough and from angles is like (ok, this guy is only showing me what he wants me to see). A girl I used to hook up with told me all about how she'd go crazy over a net picture of me doing something with my black labrador and a picture of me with my nephew. Surfing or wakeboarding (active) pictures are gold. Makes you look like less of a loser (because this isn't school, you start with a 50 - F instead of a 100%). They eat that **** up.

6. If you ask me personally, it's all stupid. MAKE AN OPPORTUNITY to somehow show up at the same event that they do after you get a rapport with her and know what she likes, and use ACTUAL GAME. Facebook is INCREDIBLE for this. USE SOMETHING LIKE GUNWICH METHOD.

Alright, I'm no guru. But this crap works.
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effing brilliant...

 

[Sexual]

effing brilliant...

Heh, I wouldn't say brilliant but it's good advice. I wanted to elaborate on the fourth "rule" or whatever you'd call that. If you're going to message women that know each other (which will **** you in your social anus), don't use the same lines. I've never explored it, but it seems like a pretty bad idea only you come off from a friend level. It seems like fun to try, because I love ****ing up my friendships and breaking the friends state with women. It hasn't gotten me in too bad with the rest of their friends... well, not that I can remember.