"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Online dating - what works?

ShinerDog

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I've tried POF, OKCupid and eharmony, basically you get more quality women with the latter two, but even okc kind of sucks, since it's free you still have to compete, but at least if give you a match % and whatnot. I've met girls from okcupid and eharmony, eharm is the way better option if you are willing to fork out some $... I think POF sucks unless you are a very good lookin dude, good physique, etc. but I imagine the quality of women is not good.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

betheman

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ok, experiment over, ive deleted 'her' profile.
Lessons:
99.5% of the messages Ive received have been non descript, meaningless drivel
the 'opposition' I have nothing to fear, I can more than match profiles, opening messages etc.
Pics, this is the key, you need a good pic of yourself, smiling, social, preferably with a mixed group with a good looking women nearby.
a really good looking guy with such pics will be an instant draw, the pic is the hook.
a lot of the women on dating sites, in this case pof, are cranks, there is more baggage than holiday season at heathrow.
the women tend to have incredibly high expectations and more than average sense of entitlement.
Ultimately, if you want to have any 'success' on such sites, follow the above.
Good luck
 

Szyzzlin

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You're wasting your time online dating. You won't be able to separate yourself from the pack. Devote your time to more successful areas... like picking-up women in person.
 
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