Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You guys need to stop letting dweebs hang out with you.
its the strangers that give us carriage rides that make small talk and stuff. they say how did you meet? we figure its funny to tell strangers we met on an internet forum where men discuss women and dating and rant and rave and there is a few hundred guys and a handful of chicks on here.
Not if you're a late GenX or early GenY teenager...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Im with you on this...The only way to get noticed on myspace is you gotta take pics of yourself damn near naked...Im not taking pics like that of myself cause you never know who will see it, plus im not gonna cheapen myself to get online broads, you dont have to walk around with no shirt on in real life to get girls...Everyone that I know that has broads requesting them has at least one pic like that...I get requested by the fat busted white broads that have like 2,000 black dudes on their list and people trying to run scams and sh1t, lol...
What else do you expect from a free site?
You do have a point though...I guess cause you have to pay for the other sites, people are more serious about it...Maybe when I get older Ill try it out, but im young and stingy right now, lol...
This describes an ex of mine from a few years back. She had a virtual army of AFC's who would e-mail her and instant message her every day. One time I signed in with her account and got IM's from 20 different guys in 5 minutes and her Inbox was flooded with AFC mail. She would put "in relationship" in her profile and the AFC's still wouldn't relent. This experience has completely turned me off to IM and email as sarging communications.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Is "stingy" what you whippersnappers call "broke" nowadays?
lol it depends...Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Is "stingy" what you whippersnappers call "broke" nowadays?