"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dating Sites?

This thread is Inspired by another thread where the guy talks about meeting women online.

What are the good 'dating' personal sites out there?

None of that adultfinder bull**** where they ask you to upgrade to 'premium' every 10seconds and wont allow you to do anything if you 're not premium.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Search the forum. Tons of threads already exist about the different sites and the pros and cons to gaming online.
 
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Errrrrr dont do the online thing its better to have balls and approach a girl face to face. The whole online thing is for pus*ys who need to hide behind a computer.

Are you a pus*y?
 
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I agree: don't waste your time with online.
It's particulary bad in that it encourages
a detached, "shy" method of approaching women when you'd be better off learning to approach them in real life, or spend the time developing friends, contacts or being part of a group that you like where you could meet women.
 
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Originally posted by BigFoot
It's particulary bad in that it encourages
a detached, "shy" method of approaching women ...
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Yeah... Whatever you say... :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lets get some URLS listed here.

Those who use them please post up!
 
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What did i say? Dont use them! Get your f**king ass of you computer go out and meet girls in the real world.
 
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I do but I have seen soem succesfuls tories....oh and the search doesnt yield anything related....just usual talk about...noa ctual URLS.
 
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Some success stories? by desperate guys searching for deperate women who are reay to settle for just about anything.......... OF COURSE THERE ARE SUCCESS STORIES.

Are you really that desperate?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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