Road Warrior
Don Juan
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- Jan 28, 2010
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I have been experimenting around on a couple of online dating websites as part of my AFC recovery. On one of the sites, I have rewritten my profile using tips that I have learned on here and other areas. The amount of looks I get and quality of the lookers has gone way up. I know I still have some tweaking to do on it because I would like to get my response rate and quality of resopnders higher, but it is still awsome to see some results! My plan is that when I get a step down online where I consistantly get positve results, I will then also test it in the field. My end goal is not to just get laid, but to pull in quality women on a consistant basis.
The other website that I am on occasionally has meet and greet parties that I occasionally attend. Earlier on these parties had some pretty good crowds, but as of lately, the ratio is about 1-2HB's, 5 - 10 doables, about 25 lo end cougars and about 50 guys. I am just about done with these unless it turns around quickly!
My question comes in where I have met a lady (in the doable, but no big loss) category. We exchange usernames and chat, but then when I try to get a phone number, she replies back asking for my number first. Hesitantly, I reply back with my number, she replies back saying she will call. Well, that was what I had thought. I still have not heard anything, but like I said, no big loss. Another lady that I had met at several of the parties suddenly sends me a message about a month ago. We chat a little, but it goes nowhere. Once again no big loss, move on. Well, I get another message from her last week. We chat a little, then she replies she would like to go on a poker run on the bike. I reply back, that I will check when one is going on and I would call if I had her number. She replies back that it would be better if she had my number. My gut feeling tells me not to even reply back, But could I get some opinions? Also, as I have not yet been getting the results I would like when I send out the first emails online. I am wondering if anyone has any tips for good opening emails?
The other website that I am on occasionally has meet and greet parties that I occasionally attend. Earlier on these parties had some pretty good crowds, but as of lately, the ratio is about 1-2HB's, 5 - 10 doables, about 25 lo end cougars and about 50 guys. I am just about done with these unless it turns around quickly!
My question comes in where I have met a lady (in the doable, but no big loss) category. We exchange usernames and chat, but then when I try to get a phone number, she replies back asking for my number first. Hesitantly, I reply back with my number, she replies back saying she will call. Well, that was what I had thought. I still have not heard anything, but like I said, no big loss. Another lady that I had met at several of the parties suddenly sends me a message about a month ago. We chat a little, but it goes nowhere. Once again no big loss, move on. Well, I get another message from her last week. We chat a little, then she replies she would like to go on a poker run on the bike. I reply back, that I will check when one is going on and I would call if I had her number. She replies back that it would be better if she had my number. My gut feeling tells me not to even reply back, But could I get some opinions? Also, as I have not yet been getting the results I would like when I send out the first emails online. I am wondering if anyone has any tips for good opening emails?