Internet Success
I have hooked up with about 15 women over this year using on-line services exclusively.
Match.com and the free-site of
www.newyork.craigslist.org. Only thing about Craigs is that you have to trade pictures, but hay free-is-free and you can't expect full service.
I am a sensitive, emotional, spiritual, Artsie sort of guy, who has added in the DJ stuff. I run a small computer business, so I guess I have developed a bit of Alpha maleness too.
I have done well. In my case it was not looks, I have only around average to perhaps a bit above average looks. All communication and technique so to speak.
Eventually you find out what is most effective and continue to develop it.
You need to have you first few communications thought out well, and go for the phone number with two emails. Home phones are best, but alot of women will only give out their cell phone these days until they know you a bit. If you can't get the phone number within a few emails, and a date within a call or two, their interest level is low and move on.
I am working on public approuches, but actually I currently use the Internet as my exclusive source of phone numbers.