"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Online dating is useful for getting back on track

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After ending a two year relationship recently it took me a little while to get my inner game in order. However, what really helped was simply getting several dates (and lays) in my spare time at work by using some of the online dating sites. It adds a little fun to my daily grind at the office!

While I was initially (and remain) skeptical of online dating, if you find yourself in need of, for lack of a better term, a slumpbuster, the online thing might be the ticket.

The advantage is that if you’re inner game is not yet to the point where live approaches come easy, online will help. If you suffer from excessive approach anxiety, I believe that online dating can help by connecting you with women without having to make a traditional approach. After a few dates and hopefully lays, you will get your game back on track, the approach anxiety will be gone and online dating will no longer be needed.

Just be prepared to have thick skin because for me it's a numbers game.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ITS MORE THAN THAT.......its a way of meeting/dating tons of women.

Theres some high quality women online. There are certain types that join dating sites granted, but U can find a keepher if you are resourceful.

Not sure what numbers game is..........I do know that a great profile, cool pic and a clever written email scores tons of chics. The fact that you profess its a numbers game informs me that you are not living the full potential of the power of net dating.

DOLLAR FOR DOLLAR, time vrs rejection its the fastest, easiest way to meet women as opposed to in the field approaches. Much like cold approaches, theres a strategic way to get tons of responses. step by step tactics lead to finding the one, or a one niter or even boat loads of women.

IT DOES virtually nothing to build confidence quickly........that eminates from live dates. U can have tons of responses but if the dates dont panned out.......confidence goes way down. It really is a science to becoming an online pickup artist (example 8-10 dates per week with different women).

Its just another way to socialize and meet people, some people suck at the bar scene or cold apporaches, for intraverts Net Dating rox.

It truly is the lowest form of mastering confidence and should be used if all else fails. No two sites are alike and it comes down to the enticing email you send out.

For cut n pastes that reel em in on various sites..........

google

DaVagina code..........by far the best for online hookups
 

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No offense to anyone, but I'm highly skeptical of online dating.
From what I know, the chicks are mostly HB6s and lower.

Also, I personally can't believe why a HB8 or 9 would want to join (or have time to join) a dating website.

Maybe there are a handful, but it'll be like 0.00001% / 100%.
 

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Nikar said:
No offense to anyone, but I'm highly skeptical of online dating.
From what I know, the chicks are mostly HB6s and lower.
This is mostly true on free dating sites. People don't usually feel good about having to pay if they feel that they are going to be rejected anyway.
Nikar said:
Also, I personally can't believe why a HB8 or 9 would want to join (or have time to join) a dating website....
There's an abundance of AFC in the world. Dating sites allow hot women to pick and choose in a matter of minutes in comfort who they are willing to talk to. It's a lot less frustrating than going to a bar, turning down a guy who's been trying to pick her up for an hour and then being called a b1tch afterward.
 

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online dating rocks! you can listen to music while you pull moves!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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chance said:
online dating rocks! you can listen to music while you pull moves!

You can pick up chics while drinking a six pack, not shaving for a week and holding your d!ck in your hand.

Anyone who says that isn't the best thing since sliced bread is crazy!
 

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Which are the best online dating websites? Any advice would be welcome.
 
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joe bloggs said:
Which are the best online dating websites? Any advice would be welcome.
I would say match or yahoo personals have the most women.

There are TONS of tips for online dating in these forums if you do a proper search.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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