“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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so i get a girls number from the online site... i was thinking i should call their phone before i finish the chat just to see if its them. or do you guys just get the number and call another day?? for some reason i think its best just to call them right then and there so you know its actually her. thers a lot of bullsh1tters online.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wow what a moron i am. she gave me her number and then i said see ya later. i called her straight away just to say hi and confirm it was really her (a female) she didnt answer. i went back on the chat and told her to answer and she said she was tired and said goodnight and left. LOL wow i fuked that up.
 

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no, its on pause! :p btw do you guys give out facebooks to girls u chat to? i got pretty good social status and girls posting on my walls so i guess its okay.
 

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okay so just spoke to another one. she ended up giving me my facebook. soon as she saw my relationship status she got so jealous.. i ended up just adding her and saying see ya later. she was like "ok babe, see you darl" im pretty much in with her, already organised a date.

so i guess you can give girls facebook if you got good status.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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blackwolf said:
okay so just spoke to another one. she ended up giving me my facebook. soon as she saw my relationship status she got so jealous.. i ended up just adding her and saying see ya later. she was like "ok babe, see you darl" im pretty much in with her, already organised a date.

so i guess you can give girls facebook if you got good status.

Keep up the good work Blackwolf. lmao.

Blackwolf = "Winning". Good day.
 

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WTF????

I want to bash my head against the wall!!!!

HERE IS ADVICE FOR YOU BLACKWOLF:

1. DON'T DO ANYTHING UNTIL YOU ASK US!!!
2. Change your user name to Jackoff
3. Call me an douch*bag for responding to this!
4. Reread number 1
5. Repeat number 3

Im breaking your balls but things like this make me nuts. I have f*cked up a lot on the scene but never seemed desperate or needy like some of you! That was ALWAYS a NO NO in my handbook.

Here is TRUE ADVICE for online contact after number closing. I've done this & I've always gotten the date:

Call soon. like that night or the day after. otherwise the spark fades.. when you do call, be funny..for example call her a nickname referring to something you talked about. dont just say "Hi Linda, its joe boring from pof" blah blah blah...Say "hey scaredy cat, I see the boogieman didnt come & get you" (I said this to a chick that told me she was scared to be alone while watching a horror flick) ...that was my opening so I used it & I went & kept her company... but you get the idea...be FUN!!!

or

text her right away saying "whats up blah blah blah. Here's my number so you have it...call you soon -JOE BORING"
I use this approach on chicks that seemed a bit hard to open on emails. this makes me feel better cause i now know they know who's calling. . I leave no vm..They get 2 chances to answer. I have always gotten a call back

good luck
 
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