When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The secret is having the ability to qualify a woman. Yeah, there are lame women online but there's a bunch that are fed up with the AFC type guys that approach them on the street.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You're right in all of your observations. The key is connecting with them or gaining rapport. C/F does work but I don't think it would ever be necessary to use neg-hits unless you are sarging stuck up women; why waste time doing that anyway?
Myspace got me quite a few dates with attractive women, but I didn't set out to use it that way. Most of them contacted me. Some were attention *****s, but I approved them anyway for the social proof.
(short version)Either that or you just have a knack for picking out the nut chews.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your looks will only get you so far. Plus is that's all you have to offer, you will mostly attract flaky women.
True, how photogenic you are (note: alot of people look better or worse in person than in photograph - check out some models sometime in real life) will only get you so far, but it get's the initial attraction. Without that, you go nowhere.