"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Online Dating Craziness

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BlueAlpha1

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I recently moved to a new state with no friends or family and decided to test the waters of online dating for the first time.

I have to say I can't believe how ripe this bile is with strikingly average girls stating "if you just want sex just move right along." It really goes to the heart of what Rollo has talked about since the dawn of time about the feminine imperative.

Men = Attention to get sex
Women = Sexuality to get attention

Most of these women post photos that took them an hour to color enhance in order to remove every microscopic flaw to appear sexier, on to scorn men for thinking they're SEXy.

Yet, these girls don't mind sorting through hundreds of messages to get an attention fix while giving nothing in return. In a nutshell - masculinity bad, femininity good. Lend no credence to the fact that men live with 12-17 times the libido on a daily basis which explains our more aggressive nature. This societal double standard really needs to stop.

Show no mercy the next time you chat up a raging feminist in a bar and show them this post.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hockeyfreak79

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Yes, I remember seeing "friends first" alot as well. It just means that they more than likely got pumped & dumped in the past. Last chick I got off OLD it said "friends first", we fvcked on the second date so there you have it.
 

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Haha "friends first" unless she finds you so handsome that she decides to fvck you in your car on the first date. So yea...friends first.
 

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GS750 said:
Haha "friends first" unless she finds you so handsome that she decides to fvck you in your car on the first date. So yea...friends first.
This is true.

All women will become slvts to the right guy.
 

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BlueAlpha1 said:
I recently moved to a new state with no friends or family and decided to test the waters of online dating for the first time.

I have to say I can't believe how ripe this bile is with strikingly average girls stating "if you just want sex just move right along." It really goes to the heart of what Rollo has talked about since the dawn of time about the feminine imperative.

Men = Attention to get sex
Women = Sexuality to get attention

Most of these women post photos that took them an hour to color enhance in order to remove every microscopic flaw to appear sexier, on to scorn men for thinking they're SEXy.

Yet, these girls don't mind sorting through hundreds of messages to get an attention fix while giving nothing in return. In a nutshell - masculinity bad, femininity good. Lend no credence to the fact that men live with 12-17 times the libido on a daily basis which explains our more aggressive nature. This societal double standard really needs to stop.

Show no mercy the next time you chat up a raging feminist in a bar and show them this post.
Friends first is a chick looking for dudes she doesn't want to **** to stroke her ego hoping to change her mind while she plays ignorant to the fact she joined a dating site. Shell use those dudes till she gets back with her ex or finds the hot hunk who bangs her on the first meet and you'd see how fast she wants either a relationship or to keep him as a fck friend.

Chicks are good at spotting "lies" in men's profiles etc. Because they're all lying online themselves as they only invest in their altered and or best looking pics. Half don't even write a profile which is why you ignore everything and spam using your best pictures then take what your best pictures reel in or don't bother.

Feel lucky you don't get responses let alone a relationship out of online dating. Most every chick using them is on there for a reason and none of its good. All damaged nutjobs. From whales to the best looking ones. No normal good looking chick would ever need to use online dating unless she has serious issues etc. No joke
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I just moved at the end of last year so I started using online sites again. It's funny how often I see what you have mentioned. Some very average looking women all presuming that everyone who immediately sees their profile wants to get them in bed.

The most hilarious is when they put up a list of requirements like it's a job application. One thing to note is when women go on and on about their accomplishments like it's supposed to be impressive. All it says to me is they put their career and what they want to do before everything else. Probably the reason why they are in their mid 30's with no kids and single. I find it more normal that a woman is a single parent in her 30's than childless at that age. Something about women who don't act on their desire to start a family just seems unnatural to me.
 

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GS750 said:
Haha "friends first" unless she finds you so handsome that she decides to fvck you in your car on the first date. So yea...friends first.
A woman wouldn't be friends first, shy, or take it slow with Brad Pitt. You wouldn't be friends first with Kate Upton or Shakira.

Point proven.
 

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Online dating has largely become a waste of time, and a way for women to get their ego-stroked by rejecting men. Ironically while they sit alone in their apartment lamenting the fact that "there are no good men left". It can be devastating to the male ego.

If I were to try it again, I would put a simple, vague profile up, with good pics, and leave it at that.

Those women who were interested could contact me - but I would put very little effort in.

I think you would have better luck joining some local clubs/groups or volunteer work. Seriously.
agreed mind blown how lazy so many guys have become....what happened to cold approach?
 

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And don't you DARE try to message her about something "Intelligent" such as your take on religion or social mores or anything besides HER, just a concept, or try to be "heady..." for She Will Give You a flat, "Uhhgh...Go away!!" or the like. They do not want to discuss ANYTHING intelligent, even if you bring up a woman author whose books you read who you think deserves much more praise and recognition because she actually took the Time to Research History which shows in her books (Very detailed taking you into a whole new world - the Past). Don't try to talk to her about anything intelligent or you'll get a full stop "get lost!" These are rotten fish online and mostly in real life too, but I still say what I wanna say and really don't give a fvck what she says, until one proves to me her Worth as a partner who can SPEAK/Write intelligently. They don't wanna hear it! though..you know, TRUTH. They need a Man to reveal to them Truth, but they'll Never take it to genuine Heart cause it's hard for them to understand a lot of concepts or for it to take deep root. Now, if what you tell her is "fashionable" or "Politically Correct" then she will listen All Day Long. In such a case, you are to "hit it, quit it, park-stop it, neutral-slam it, run it through all the gears, and leave it on the lot where you found it..."
 
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