"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Online Dating Craziness

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BlueAlpha1

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I recently moved to a new state with no friends or family and decided to test the waters of online dating for the first time.

I have to say I can't believe how ripe this bile is with strikingly average girls stating "if you just want sex just move right along." It really goes to the heart of what Rollo has talked about since the dawn of time about the feminine imperative.

Men = Attention to get sex
Women = Sexuality to get attention

Most of these women post photos that took them an hour to color enhance in order to remove every microscopic flaw to appear sexier, on to scorn men for thinking they're SEXy.

Yet, these girls don't mind sorting through hundreds of messages to get an attention fix while giving nothing in return. In a nutshell - masculinity bad, femininity good. Lend no credence to the fact that men live with 12-17 times the libido on a daily basis which explains our more aggressive nature. This societal double standard really needs to stop.

Show no mercy the next time you chat up a raging feminist in a bar and show them this post.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hockeyfreak79

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Yes, I remember seeing "friends first" alot as well. It just means that they more than likely got pumped & dumped in the past. Last chick I got off OLD it said "friends first", we fvcked on the second date so there you have it.
 

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Haha "friends first" unless she finds you so handsome that she decides to fvck you in your car on the first date. So yea...friends first.
 

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GS750 said:
Haha "friends first" unless she finds you so handsome that she decides to fvck you in your car on the first date. So yea...friends first.
This is true.

All women will become slvts to the right guy.
 

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BlueAlpha1 said:
I recently moved to a new state with no friends or family and decided to test the waters of online dating for the first time.

I have to say I can't believe how ripe this bile is with strikingly average girls stating "if you just want sex just move right along." It really goes to the heart of what Rollo has talked about since the dawn of time about the feminine imperative.

Men = Attention to get sex
Women = Sexuality to get attention

Most of these women post photos that took them an hour to color enhance in order to remove every microscopic flaw to appear sexier, on to scorn men for thinking they're SEXy.

Yet, these girls don't mind sorting through hundreds of messages to get an attention fix while giving nothing in return. In a nutshell - masculinity bad, femininity good. Lend no credence to the fact that men live with 12-17 times the libido on a daily basis which explains our more aggressive nature. This societal double standard really needs to stop.

Show no mercy the next time you chat up a raging feminist in a bar and show them this post.
Friends first is a chick looking for dudes she doesn't want to **** to stroke her ego hoping to change her mind while she plays ignorant to the fact she joined a dating site. Shell use those dudes till she gets back with her ex or finds the hot hunk who bangs her on the first meet and you'd see how fast she wants either a relationship or to keep him as a fck friend.

Chicks are good at spotting "lies" in men's profiles etc. Because they're all lying online themselves as they only invest in their altered and or best looking pics. Half don't even write a profile which is why you ignore everything and spam using your best pictures then take what your best pictures reel in or don't bother.

Feel lucky you don't get responses let alone a relationship out of online dating. Most every chick using them is on there for a reason and none of its good. All damaged nutjobs. From whales to the best looking ones. No normal good looking chick would ever need to use online dating unless she has serious issues etc. No joke
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just moved at the end of last year so I started using online sites again. It's funny how often I see what you have mentioned. Some very average looking women all presuming that everyone who immediately sees their profile wants to get them in bed.

The most hilarious is when they put up a list of requirements like it's a job application. One thing to note is when women go on and on about their accomplishments like it's supposed to be impressive. All it says to me is they put their career and what they want to do before everything else. Probably the reason why they are in their mid 30's with no kids and single. I find it more normal that a woman is a single parent in her 30's than childless at that age. Something about women who don't act on their desire to start a family just seems unnatural to me.
 

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GS750 said:
Haha "friends first" unless she finds you so handsome that she decides to fvck you in your car on the first date. So yea...friends first.
A woman wouldn't be friends first, shy, or take it slow with Brad Pitt. You wouldn't be friends first with Kate Upton or Shakira.

Point proven.
 

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Online dating has largely become a waste of time, and a way for women to get their ego-stroked by rejecting men. Ironically while they sit alone in their apartment lamenting the fact that "there are no good men left". It can be devastating to the male ego.

If I were to try it again, I would put a simple, vague profile up, with good pics, and leave it at that.

Those women who were interested could contact me - but I would put very little effort in.

I think you would have better luck joining some local clubs/groups or volunteer work. Seriously.
agreed mind blown how lazy so many guys have become....what happened to cold approach?
 

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And don't you DARE try to message her about something "Intelligent" such as your take on religion or social mores or anything besides HER, just a concept, or try to be "heady..." for She Will Give You a flat, "Uhhgh...Go away!!" or the like. They do not want to discuss ANYTHING intelligent, even if you bring up a woman author whose books you read who you think deserves much more praise and recognition because she actually took the Time to Research History which shows in her books (Very detailed taking you into a whole new world - the Past). Don't try to talk to her about anything intelligent or you'll get a full stop "get lost!" These are rotten fish online and mostly in real life too, but I still say what I wanna say and really don't give a fvck what she says, until one proves to me her Worth as a partner who can SPEAK/Write intelligently. They don't wanna hear it! though..you know, TRUTH. They need a Man to reveal to them Truth, but they'll Never take it to genuine Heart cause it's hard for them to understand a lot of concepts or for it to take deep root. Now, if what you tell her is "fashionable" or "Politically Correct" then she will listen All Day Long. In such a case, you are to "hit it, quit it, park-stop it, neutral-slam it, run it through all the gears, and leave it on the lot where you found it..."
 
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