"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Online dating and why you should do it even if you don't like it

ladiesman217

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We all have our own opinions on online dating... Some say its bs, some have found huge success with it, I was you to throw away all of your negative thoughts about meeting strangers online for a moment as I explain why it will help you get laid with the who you want to hookup with NOW.

Guess what? It's story time. But first let me tell you where I'm coming from. I'm an above average looking kid who was kind of a natural when it came to girl. I had lots of options, I just never took action nor did I recognize them. Coming in to high school I started going to a privet Christian school, this sounded good, hot girls in plad mini skirts. But no... I was dragged into something entirely different. There were no hot girls and no mini skirts. There was one cute girl and she had a boyfriend. So I started online dating. It was the best choice of my life. At first I didn't understand how it worked. But once I did I used my humor and looks to get me number after number. I loved having the power to get all ladies... So becoming a textoholic I took my skills to the next level, weather you realize it or not, you subconsciously communicate your social value. I had girls throwing themselves at me... But I didn't see that, when I did it was after the fact. So, with all of these new friends I had nothing but new friends. So I stopped trying to get dates and only made new HOT friends. This is when the fun began, they started to ask me for dates. I was shocked, I didn't do anything but change my mindset.

So, the moral of this story is women sense what you want before you know what you want. Stop chasing and you will be chased, it's that simple. Until you put it into action, you can't just say you don't want to chase anymore and think that that will fix all of your problems. You have to genuinely want to stop chasing, that's where the online dating comes in. By having so many options it changed my mindset on women, they say it takes money to get money. It's the same with women, the more you have the more you want. In online dating, 10% of the guys get 90% of the women. So go out there, do some research and then set up a good system for getting girls to message you and a good message to message them, although there is no magic message it is a numbers game. So go out and do it! You will be shocked with the results.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NorwegianDJ

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Post here again when you get results from this online dating. Right now it just sounds like you're feeling good cause you believe a lot of virtual women are into you.
 
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