"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Online Convo I Just had

Bussey

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me: well im not that easy! i hardly know u and ur already asking to get to third base
her : lol
her : no i mean... i dunno
me: so is that all i am to you? a piece of meat that you can use and toss away? well thats it im breaking up with you
her : lol
her : wanna see me ?
me: naked?
her : clothed
me: pffeewwfff, yea sure as long as ur clothed ;)
her : lol
me: hey i liek your necklace
her : ty, i dont hear that often lol
me: what gumball machine did u get it from?
her : :O jerk:p
her : i should just not give you a good night kiss tonight
me: did i ask? your just getting ahead of yourself assuming i want one ;)
her : from me.. yah you would
her: lol
me: riiiiggghhhtttt lol
her: im kinda intrigued by you
her : i usually always get what i want.. your kinda being hard to get

This girl is a HB9 too... should be interesting.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Not to burst your bubble here but yeah so far so good. Come back and say that this stuff works when you are glueing her eyelids shut.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by belividere
Not to burst your bubble here but yeah so far so good. Come back and say that this stuff works when you are glueing her eyelids shut.
What are you tlaking about?
 

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yes, you have the attitude down perfectly...

keep that attitude when you get to see her in real life, don't turn it down, turn it up...

you're on the right track
 

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Ok, that's classic. Awesome!

Ok, I'll go ahead and make myself look stupid as well, but what the heck does "glueing her eyelids shut" mean? Is that when she is dead or is that some sexual reference?
 

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Originally posted by skinnydart
Ok, that's classic. Awesome!

Ok, I'll go ahead and make myself look stupid as well, but what the heck does "glueing her eyelids shut" mean? Is that when she is dead or is that some sexual reference?
I still don't get it... And dude it has nothing to do with age... If you know what hes trying to say, enlighten me... I read it as

"Not to make you look bad, but your doing well" - Conflicting....
"Come back and say this stuff works when you are 'cummin on her face'"? maybe?

If that is what you were trying to say... you really could have worded it better.

And I know it works, its just nice sometimes to see it in actual text. I dunno, I like reading a guys success story...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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