Oneitis?

[fuko2007]

Need some advice from you guys on SS. I started to see the girl i went NC on agian. Weve been doing ok untill the last thursday night. When she went up to a friends apartment whom im not worrying about because of certin reasons. I got mad because she didnt tell me or respond to any of my calls.

She inturn blew up and and said she hasnt ****ed anybody else or kissed etc. We were supposed to go on a trip this weeknd but thats off now. She and i stayed togther lastnight but no sex and no convo about thursday. She just acted depressed and very short. I had already given her her key back and she had a few of my things beside the door.

I asked her if we were over like that and she said no. Im confused because she has been acting strange and very short lately. Dont know if i should text her and see if i could swing by and grab my things after work because it will probabially set her off. And i know she has been real stressed with work etc. But anytime she is around other people she is all smiles. Her texts have been very short and simple since thursday and she has not started a convo yet.

I also noticed whenever i ask her what she is going to be doing she gets mad but after our fight i told her i was leaving town for the wweknd. I get a response saying guessing you are not going to tell me where your going? If i said that she would blow up

At a loss here guys. i really care for her and i do have another girl i can call up but i just dont feel right. Wish i knew what she was doing or what was really going on with her. Any advice?

 

[switch]

my bet is she is in the "detachment phase" , grieving the loss and sh!t...
one of these days you'll get a text saying "i want to go soul searching" or some sh!t similar.....

if your gut says she is cold and distant,getting ready to dump you , then she is....trust your gut

 

[fuko2007]

my bet is she is in the "detachment phase" , grieving the loss and sh!t...
one of these days you'll get a text saying "i want to go soul searching" or some sh!t similar.....

if your gut says she is cold and distant,getting ready to dump you , then she is....trust your gut

funny you said that. my gut has been saying it for a while now.

 

[switch]

funny you said that. my gut has been saying it for a while now.

pre-emptive strike.dump her first. in that case there is always a small chance she will turn into FB later on.. if she dumps you however then its a lost cause

strike before your enem..*cough* girl :rock:

 

[fuko2007]

new update....text her about having a beer...she said if she got over her head ache. Put another idea on the table about watching what we always watch monday night and cooking....she said we can see.....wtf is that sh!t?