Oneitis

[K2000kidd]

has anyone gottn oneitis over the girl they CAN't game?
single girl mid twenties is the only one who kinda blows me off when i approach. when i flirt with her buddies she gets cold and kind of distant and if i say anything all i get is "Yep" or she'll flat out walk away. Then she goes so far as come over in my dept and say hi to all my friends and ppl i'm talking to without even looking in my direction, i have done everything right so far (except developing this one-itis)
I feel like I,m being gamed how can i turn this around?

 

[WC2]

It's a woman's sixth sense to know when we as men are desperately attracted. In a sense, she knows. And what's even worse is that she knows that you're avoiding her because you're afraid.

If you want to see positive results, you're ultimately going to have to gather up some balls and approach her as someone who doesn't need anything. You shouldn't be needy anyways. No need to act the part, live the part. Needy men = Needy sexy

 

[K2000kidd]

I haven't avoided her at all i treat her just like anyone else
and i'm not really THAT attracted to her it just bugs me that she won't flirt back like other women do
I flirt with her hot frinds she SHOULD be wanting my attention but instead turns to ice
She clearly thinks I DON'T like her but hassn't made any effort on her part to win me over
I think ONEitis was the wrong word to use here i was simply stunned that my game won't work on her
I'm just failing miserably at getting her to WANT me

 

[Acq]

WC2 tell me something..

I was desperately attracted to my oneitis, I was clearly afraid to approach her, even when she was stalking me around through my life (it was extreme). Everywhere where she appeared she would tell everyone how annoying it was that I was SO sincere when I dared to talk to her. She was obsessed with the company I worked for and used me to get a job (during the interview she mentioned my name as reference and of course I licked my bosses balls to give her a chance). Once hired she immidiately started to spread rumours about me with my collegues...the funniest thing is that she left the company by herself after two weeks or so.

She put insane efford to appear in my life over and over again in all kinds of places.

Every time when I was flirting with other chicks or simply not paying attention she would become so mad at me that the next day she looked asif she had a sleepless night.

Yes, my oneitis turned me into a sissy emo boy and Im disgusted by myself when I think of it. it lasted for three years, and has cost me some mental health, depression and more.


what was her motivation ? what drives chicks to do that ? need to feel loved or attention ? To finally get rid off her I humiliated her and then asked her out, result: very rude rejection. I still feel I missed something and that I could have done better, but fear of rejection was incredibly strong.

Oneitis is a horrible desease, especially if attraction is extremely strong. I hope it was my only oneitis since Im still recovering, despite of having a few sex partners afterwards.

 

[K2000kidd]

OK major update
the one i couldn't game has a barbie complex she will NOT try to win the affection of anyone she has to have it dumped on her in truck loads and you better keep it coming, just ask her ex b/fs
I was only perplexed cuz girl A and B were reacting the way i wanted
but girl C was a fkn ice queen and i got a little over zealous

 

[WC2]

OK major update
the one i couldn't game has a barbie complex she will NOT try to win the affection of anyone she has to have it dumped on her in truck loads and you better keep it coming, just ask her ex b/fs
I was only perplexed cuz girl A and B were reacting the way i wanted
but girl C was a fkn ice queen and i got a little over zealous

I feel like you just gave a lecture on psychotherapy of the brain.

Most women are the same. Some want money, some want nice cars, some will settle for anything. Almost all of them want sex.

When it comes down to it A B C, 1 2 3, whatever you want to call it are all the same thing.

Don't make this more complicated than it is.

Either A) you get in her pants or B) it's you and your hand for the night.

How's that for complexity? All this time stressing about multiple girls on an ONLINE forum would be much better spent joking with buddies, talking to potential women, or hell just doing something useful.

 

[K2000kidd]

I just went in with the attitude that i can get EVERY woman wanting to bed me and my unicorn just threw a wrench in my program not stressing at all LOL
these techniques work 60 percent of the time, every time