"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oneitis the DJs worst enemy

Brian20o2

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new prob (arnt i a glutton for punishment these past few)

how to deal with oneitis?

shes funny, shes cute, shes nice, she flirts back, but...
she "forgets" first she forgot to meet me
then she forgot to give me a massage (my back actually hurt and still hurts)
its like she tells me she wants to then "forgets" then tells me shes sorry and that "i love you soooo much" in appology emails

its like she tells me one thing and does the other

prolly playing hard to get

i dunno truly lost on this guys

lol she models for wait for it american airlines
that might give you a little laugh
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't listen to what she says but what she does

Action speaks louder then words.

Oh and uh, use the button between f.a.q. and home it will answer a lot of your questions.
 

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yeah i guess im just trying to figure this chick out... shes definatly diff, but that doesnt mean im being diff, in fact im using all my skills as is to asses the situation and... theres just somthing about her i cant put my finger on.... i dunno maybe im crazy or maybe i just need to use my skills on more girls...

truly confused and pissed at having oneitis

but also honestly using all my knowledge to work it out
 

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Don't try to understand her. Don care what she says, Be in control, Don't be needy and just flirt... till she lift off her skirt.

And that's how to do it.

Women in general never say things directly... especially the word "NO". Just actions.
 

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I've had oneitis for 21 years... with myself (dig deeper into this)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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