Oneitis? Really?

[Crazy Asian]

Hey guys, it's been a while.
I've been on and off with pick-up and not really getting into it hardcore anymore. I'm just trying to have a cool life and a few cool girls to hang with.

I haven't felt Oneitis in a LONG time. At first I didn't even realize it was Oneitis until a friend pointed it out for me.
Because I feel this way, I cannot trust myself to make rational decisions. My judgment is too clouded right now, so I need your advice.
I'm really into this girl. She's a complete nice girl. Has had sex once. Really religious. But she seems to be into every guy she talks to. Before me, there were 2 guys that were my friends who talked to her, and she instantly was into them. She wanted to date them, but for some reason it didn't work out.

I know I'm fvcking awesome, but I just can't shake the feeling that I'm just some other guy to her. And WOW, just typing this made things so clear for me lol. I should be making her feel this way... and I am... sorta.

She likes every guy that talks to her, and I'm feeling insecure about that and in myself. Thanks for your help.

 

[SamTheHobit]

Oneitis another word for infatuation??

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Hey man, it's been a while. For me, too.

To the guy who's throwing out personality disorders, get in line with the people quick to judge with BPD and MPD.

Sam, Oneitis is lingo for current crush, where one guy is "spending too much thought" on, "creeping on", or has too much interest/emotion invested in (without reciprocity).

AZN, test her interest. Bust her balls. Make her work for your attention. You know the game. Turn that female test back onto them.

We need more details. Is she clingy and needy already? Or, does she just wanna start having a relationship from the get go? Have you guys gotten together to actually get to know each other? Have you guys done any friskiness?

You're making it seem like shes literally jumping form guy to guy looking for a relationship, and all the guys are saying no.