i've met this girl who i must admit i really like. she is intellectually on par with me and our compatibility is through the roof. our first few dates were great, she was way into me so i felt i had nothing to worry about...until i met her friends. all i can say is a few of them were cool but the rest...well i've never cleared a room so fast! they wouldn't give me the time of day. i don't know why-i'm guessing it's cuz' i'm a brown man with a cute blondie but who cares? anyway, after this it seems her interest level was diminished. she still seemed fairly interested til' about now. usually she returns phone calls. now she doesn't. she seems cold as of late. it's been four days since i've talked to her and well...what do i do? i don't want to next her yet. should i ignore her just a little longer? i think she's playing mindgames. now she won't call me cuz' i haven't called her in so long. is this a game of tag!? i usually have no problem nexting them but this one is...well, i guess i have oneitis. help a brova' out...
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ONEITIS!!!? Help!
- Thread starter Wal Doe
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
breathe deep
oneitis only lasts as long as you want it to
oneitis only lasts as long as you want it to
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Banned
Low interest level. Chicks especially younger ones are alot like sheep and unless youve tapped it her friends hold ALOT of sway in how the b!tch perceives you.
There is really not alot to say to you on this subject. Use the sh!t in the Bible to nail this chick ASAP, if shes non receptive then next her, I'd guess youve already blown your chances but it cant hurt to bite the bullet and give it a shot once and for all.
And yes you have oneitis, this b!tch should be an addition to your team and NOT the one and only. I'm guessing you already know the cure for oneitis.
Thats all I can tell you.
There is really not alot to say to you on this subject. Use the sh!t in the Bible to nail this chick ASAP, if shes non receptive then next her, I'd guess youve already blown your chances but it cant hurt to bite the bullet and give it a shot once and for all.
And yes you have oneitis, this b!tch should be an addition to your team and NOT the one and only. I'm guessing you already know the cure for oneitis.
Thats all I can tell you.
who the **** cares why she isnt calling. the moment a ***** stops calling you need to move on.
whats wrong with you dude?
even if its her friends causing this, all the more reason. why would you want some chic who does what her friends tell her to.
your problem isnt oneitis, its that you dont have enough respect for yourself to say '**** the *****' when shes treating you like ****.
J
whats wrong with you dude?
even if its her friends causing this, all the more reason. why would you want some chic who does what her friends tell her to.
your problem isnt oneitis, its that you dont have enough respect for yourself to say '**** the *****' when shes treating you like ****.
J
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
the cure is to move on and totally forget her