"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oneitis girl school starts again advice..

Stark

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ok so ive come to this board a couple times already with this same situation. I have to say my one itis for this one girl is so big it has almost made me mentally insane =/. but it has also motivated me to do some amazing things like build up some muscles and lose 18 pounds over the summer. heres the posts that have described what has happened up till now oldest to newest

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=121911

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=123946

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=124730

so i know its a lot of reading but anyways. i went to her birthday party in june. we talked a good amount. i actually walked with her a bit cas i arrived early cas i thought the party was earlier. i managed to walk really close rubbing arms a good amount. but other than that nothing major the party just went on...

so after that i havnt seen her for the rest of the summer. i just know she got back with her first ex and broke up in like a week. i kind of stopped texting her. she texted me a couple of nights wanting to send a pic of her belly button piercing to me. but i was asleep so i didnt reply to them. so later she comments on my myspace " i feel special im the only girl on your top friends :)" i didnt reply. later she texts me saying "i think you are sexy..." now i duno at this point if she is just ****ing with me or if shes being serious so i respond saying "oh thanks i think so too". thats whats happened thus far. also from what i know alot of drama has happpend between her and her close guy friends if that is of any signifigance and is no longer friends.

well anyways school is coming up so it is inevitable that we will meet. i am in good shape now, i have a 6pac not completely visible but you can see it i have a real muscley look now. no longer overweight. i have all new apparel that i think looks pretty good. only problem appearance wise is im not the tallest man compared to all shes dated her last bf's were usually tall scrawny im 5"7' but broad shouldered duno if it matters.

im thinking of kind of pushing her away as a friend but at the same time not losing touch. like when i go to pick up my new schedule of classes i wont be looking to see her right away ill go with one of my other group of friends and only meet at her request or maybe after a couple of days.

any tips advice appreciated... if anyone would actually like to chat aim is snidyy im so desperate for this girl i know its pathetic :(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kinda in the same boat. Friends with a girl and had(have) major oneitis for her. Since school ended I've made an effort to not have any contact with her. Still over a month until school starts up again. I don't really know where I'm going to go from there, but i feel like a different person that I doubt I need her at all.

EDIT: Sorry, lol I forgot to address your post and wrote my own sappy story. Well if I were you I'd forget about her and if she makes contact so what happens from there.
 

Stark

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it actually turns out we are in the same class now lol... and i sat next to her and we talked.
 
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