"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oneitis from hell arrrgh!!!!

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ok so I pulled a 19 year old ho from a night club and it took me 4 days and two phone conversations to get her to my house she stayed the night and I fclosed...

but then I decided to f again 3 days later but this time she says she loves me and wants me to be her man.... lol I gently said no hoping that I could keep fing her but she had other plans ... I fell into a pusy chase trap I fell in lust with her and gave her too much power by chasing and of course she lost respect and started with holding sex... and I turned afc ...

my problem is that I am in a slump and have no new options so I am clinging to this dysfunctional female in hopes that she will change .... lol
I'm making basic mistakes and making it worse..

anyway I'm trying to find other options so I can break this crap
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DonGorgon said:
ok so I pulled a 19 year old
I don't need to tell you the problem because you already know.
 

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it might sound hard to do, but just forget she ever existed! Its always actions over words with pretty much all women..
 

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saab1981 said:
it might sound hard to do, but just forget she ever existed! Its always actions over words with pretty much all women..
that is exactly what I should have done after the second f... buck I'm in this phase where I try to turn every one night stand into a relationship.. as I get older it's getting harder to be a player and nit care about feelings cause I'm lonely I need more than sex.

any way like most folks I just try to use what I can get to make up for what I can't get..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Man I love DG

This guy is in a slump every "year", DG I love your post man you know this, you know what your problem is, you steady chasing after ho's, on to the next bro....

I'm in a slump as well but I'm doing "ladder theory" right now

peace
 

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DonGorgon said:
ok so I pulled a 19 year old ho from a night club and it took me 4 days and two phone conversations to get her to my house she stayed the night and I fclosed...

but then I decided to f again 3 days later but this time she says she loves me and wants me to be her man.... lol I gently said no hoping that I could keep fing her but she had other plans ... I fell into a pusy chase trap I fell in lust with her and gave her too much power by chasing and of course she lost respect and started with holding sex... and I turned afc ...

my problem is that I am in a slump and have no new options so I am clinging to this dysfunctional female in hopes that she will change .... lol
I'm making basic mistakes and making it worse..

anyway I'm trying to find other options so I can break this crap

You are a predominantly left brained thinker and thus you should think of hunting for girls in Church. There you WILL find your soul mATE .

Also your brain will process the preachers message while in church and you will get inspired for life and not be so depressed and think that life is all about bills and death.

You will learn to spot self created business opportunities. Even when you worship God you are still allowed to swear so fvck everyone who thinks what I wrote was irrelevant. Being connected to a God worshipping network removes loneliness FAST! Take heed Don Gorgon my friend.........
 

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Solomon said:
Man I love DG

This guy is in a slump every "year", DG I love your post man you know this, you know what your problem is, you steady chasing after ho's, on to the next bro....

I'm in a slump as well but I'm doing "ladder theory" right now

peace

yeh man my life is in a bit of a mess and hos are the only women that i can "handle" at this point.. the sad reality is that a good woman has no use for me right now in my current state...
 

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YAboi said:
You are a predominantly left brained thinker and thus you should think of hunting for girls in Church. There you WILL find your soul mATE .

Also your brain will process the preachers message while in church and you will get inspired for life and not be so depressed and think that life is all about bills and death.

You will learn to spot self created business opportunities. Even when you worship God you are still allowed to swear so fvck everyone who thinks what I wrote was irrelevant. Being connected to a God worshipping network removes loneliness FAST! Take heed Don Gorgon my friend.........
great response .. fantastic indeed and im sure it will help someone.. not me though cause my soul has been lost since the age of 15..!! but the reality is that, we, what i am getting now is what suits who i am at this point.. im empty so i get empty women.. haha I have not been to church in 15 years.. but i do pray to god every day.. then i have debates about the value of man made religeious concepts on the human mental state..lol
 

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great response .. fantastic indeed and im sure it will help someone.. not me though cause my soul has been lost since the age of 15..!! but the reality is that, we, what i am getting now is what suits who i am at this point.. im empty so i get empty women.. haha I have not been to church in 15 years.. but i do pray to god every day.. then i have debates about the value of man made religeious concepts on the human mental state..lol
Do not give up man, whats funny is that I was exactly like you in that I used to pray every night without results. In my case I was depressed and lonely and had no buddies and no pvssy unlike you do. Read my first post in the thread entitled Kontroller X ''very carefully'' to end your self debate about man made religious concepts.

Try going to a church you think is very serious at least 'once'. Just try to go once and listen very carefully to the pastor. There is something about church that eliminates that 'inner loneliness'. Plus you are allowed to bang lots of chicks still when you believe in a higher power , all you need to do is use a condom (which i know you do).

GOODbye......
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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YAboi,

You have a very confused idea of what the Bible says. There are tons of scriptures that speak against swearing, and yes you and I can discuss it provately if you're so inclined.

Similarly, sleeping with multiple women is expressely forbidden in the Bible. Again, when we make statements about scripture, we must be willing and able to back them up. I'm replying to this publically because I don't want the guys to get this vague idea that "the Bible says it's ok".

Read the New Testament and you will see that it is replete with warnings against both idle and offensive talk, and, as you put it, "banging lots of chicks".

Again, I'm happy to discuss this with anybody via IM. I had to interject into this thread because of the misinformation.
 

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hey DG,

i think you need a distraction, well maybe not a distraction more like a good hearty laugh.

whenever i go through a slump i tend to think about the good times and good laughs that ive had over the course of my life.

I think laughter cures all, maybe go to a comedy club or rent a some comedic stand ups from your local blockbuster.

We are born alone and die alone, so it aint so bad.

let me know if it works for you...
 

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YAboi said:
You are a predominantly left brained thinker and thus you should think of hunting for girls in Church. There you WILL find your soul mATE .

Also your brain will process the preachers message while in church and you will get inspired for life and not be so depressed and think that life is all about bills and death.
**** jesus.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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YAboi,

You have a very confused idea of what the Bible says. There are tons of scriptures that speak against swearing, and yes you and I can discuss it provately if you're so inclined.

Similarly, sleeping with multiple women is expressely forbidden in the Bible. Again, when we make statements about scripture, we must be willing and able to back them up. I'm replying to this publically because I don't want the guys to get this vague idea that "the Bible says it's ok".

Read the New Testament and you will see that it is replete with warnings against both idle and offensive talk, and, as you put it, "banging lots of chicks".

Again, I'm happy to discuss this with anybody via IM. I had to interject into this thread because of the misinformation.

Atom smasher,
its rigidly religious people like you that make winning souls for Christ difficult. Learn to relax and stop being an extremist. This i why people don't waNT TO HEAR ABOUT CHRISTIANITY. I will not be replying to you anymore as I am not interested in a debate. Take my word or leave it. Worship God don't worship religion. You cant live your life trying to be perfect cos we are all sinners in Gods eyes and your life will just be uncomfortable if you dont live it freely


As for you Don Gorgon, Your soul is not lost, you are going to heaven as long as you don't kill anyone and you ask God for forgiveness when you think you have sinned
 
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Yes

Ease, I am Very dissapointed in your behaviour. You and everyone who has told me to seek help in a rude way or insulted me (Mantis toboggan). I have reiterated constantly that I am mentally balanced,fit and hail and hearty . Time and again I have said this but still you continue.


Put yourself in my position for a moment and think of how you would feel emotionally if someone taunted you the way you are doing to me. In my thread ‘’the supernatural’’, I should have mentioned that I underwent rehab and am fully better now. My stance remains the same, people on this site should stop arguing idiotically and should drop the insults or face being cautioned or banned.


People with low self esteem abuse others who they think are better than them in order to feel Big and relevant. STOP the hate.

To Atom smasher,
King David killed someone, commited adultery (banged someone elses wife ) two things that should be totally avoided by ALL. Yet God still loved him and forgave him when he repented.

Nobody is perfect except God in heaven and he knows this. This is why he has given Man the opportunity to say I am sorry when he does wrong.
 

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Sorry Yaboi I just wanted to correct one thing in your post - God doesn't actually exist.

Cheers!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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