Oneitis/ EX-GF Rehab Section

[Ragin_Asian]

I notice theres a lot of beginners suffering the dreaded oneitis and although theres a lot of advice, I dont think it would have worked for the chronic sufferers. I for myself still suffering the remnant emotional battlescars left by my EX-GF. I've been with more 8 chicks since her but the thought of her sticks by.

Mine could be an extreme case but I'm sure theres a few here still scarred and find it hard to move on. That alone stops them or delay from learning more to be a DJ.

 

[Vincent]

Whoa you posted this in ENTIRELY the wrong forum. Please hang up and try again.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Could someone please tell me why everyone feels it is necessary to have a new forum for just about every possible problem or situation someone could have?

Why don't we have a separate forum for people who ask for new separate forums?

In fact, I propose the following separate forums:

• The "We Should Have a Forum About Oneitis" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About ****y & Funny" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Neg Hits" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Being a Challenge" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Where to Go On Dates" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Girls With Boyfriends" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Rejection" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Interest Levels" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Mall Pickups" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Eye Contact" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Kino" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Being a Mystery" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Confidence" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Sending Flowers" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Talking on the Phone" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Online Dating Sites" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Kiss Closes" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Club Pickups" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Not Getting Married" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Text Messaging Girls" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Which Movies Are/Aren't 'DJ' or 'AFC'" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Songs That Are/Aren't 'DJ' or 'AFC'" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Books That Are/Aren't 'DJ' or 'AFC'" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Comic Book Characters That Are/Aren't 'DJ' or 'AFC'" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Taking Back an Ex-Girlfriend" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About This One Girl I Liked In Tenth Grade, Then Didn't, But Now Do Again And How Do I Get Her" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Dating Two Girls From the Same Family" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Dating Our Ex's Best Friend" Forum
• The "We Should Have a Forum About Giovanni Putting a Gun Barrel in His Mouth if You Ask For Another Forum" Forum

 

[diablo]

What a great idea! A forum filled with nothing but threads about people complaining about a girl that they can't get over! What a positive, uplifting effect this is going to have on them! There's no way that it would allow them to wallow in self-pity, reading over and having to relive what they posted each day! I'm all for it!

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

so what if we did, how would it help, you tell me oh im so sad my girlfreind just left me, what would you want me to say? cheer up? wow bet your feeling better already

 

[catch]

ha ha ha.. lol

 

[Ragin_Asian]

S L A P !!!!............WHA!!! WHO THA!!! WHO DA F...!!!

Who tha hell just slapped me in the back of the head?

Yea i think I worded it wrong it there...I was gooooone.

My opinion - Back in the day when oneitis and ex-gf hangovers were rife I found it way easier reading other people's stories and to think to myself...."Man I'm stupid, dwelling on sh*t like this. But hey it's pretty funny when I think about it. It aint the end of the world (AFC thinking)

Guys, lighten up a bit. I was talking to a young lad the other day and he was sharing his once "catastrophic" story and so I shared my own as well and then it struck me afterwards that I felt good after that. I was like, "Damn, it's not that bad after all" and just have a good laugh about it.

Perhaps I should've added that this section should be an "around the campfire" type discussion not a psychologist/counsellor interogation. Also I've read what I actually typed and thought, "Sh*t no wonder people flamed ya, Ragin Asian"

Lighten up, this is suppose to be just a light discussion. It's interesting reading on someone's old posts about how his "girl" is doing this or doing that and how much they love her and now, fast forward to present and they've got about 8 girlfriends and improved so much.

 

[Ragin_Asian]

My dumb ass just posted it in the completely wrong section/forum??? DUHHHHH...Sorry newbie mistake

Mods, can you please put this on ANYTHING ELSE?

Thanx