"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oneitis dreams ???

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so i used to have this oneitis right ive been doing a pretty good job of getting over her and i used to constantly think about her everyday now its maybe once a day and i almost never see her anymore and i dont like her nearly as much
okay so
my problem is that i keep having dreams about her and i dont want to
why is this happening?
how can i stop it?
does it happen to you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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this is happening because you still like her. Just give it more time and these dreams will evantually stop. you should be trying to get other girls or this oneitis is going to stay. Go after some girls and these dreams will stop bro. I have had these dreams before and all you need to do is find other girls to occupy your mind instead of this one. Hope this helps
 
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Wow. Sometimes I wonder what a girls reaction would be if she found out a guy had "oneitis" for her.
 
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dude i chase other girls i have so many other girls chasing me its ridiculous and thats why this is bugging me so much she isnt special but my dreams keep her in them
oh and she wasnt in my dreams when i really did like her
 
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eaglez1177 said:
Wow. Sometimes I wonder what a girls reaction would be if she found out a guy had "oneitis" for her.
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Right now, she'd call the guy a pvssy. In 15 years, she'll marry him.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dimehair said:
Right now, she'd call the guy a pvssy. In 15 years, she'll marry him.
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haha, true that
 
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haha oneitis dreams, doesn't matter man you dream about whatever's on your mind. it's actually healthy for you to have real-life dreams and not like far out crazy dreams, even tho the latter is way more fun even if u die in them, i think haha.
 
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well

they seem really normal
originally they were her rejecting me in different ways
now she is randomly showing up
the only one ive had in the past 2 weeks though is me hanging out with her friends and her
 
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I had one recently of a girl and I only saw the back of her head throughout the whole dream...like she had no face haha it was weird and I felt rejected.
I haven't had one since then, but I think of her every time I wake up for some reason...The strangest thing is I don't even like her that much!

Gonna ask her out eventually though despite that.
 
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