"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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styleman

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My oneitis of many years (five) and I are close friends and we meet up quite often...

She gave me a bracelet (a relativly expensive one) today... and it's confused me, even though I've pretty much given up any idea of 'us'...
 

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It's a bracelet. You sound like great friends

There's nothing more to say here
 

window

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give the bracelet to your next girlfriend then take your new girlfriend to your friends place and watch what happens...
 

styleman

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window said:
give the bracelet to your next girlfriend then take your new girlfriend to your friends place and watch what happens...
What will happen????
 

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well your oneitis will see that she has the bracelet.. might be jealousy or she might take offence
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your oneitis is an ugly hag. In the town you live in there are inumerable other women who are more attractive in mind and body than that c oc k tease is so dump that biatch.

There. Maybe that will help.
 

styleman

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destiny said:
well your oneitis will see that she has the bracelet.. might be jealousy or she might take offence
How to know which one it will be?
 

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destiny said:
well your oneitis will see that she has the bracelet.. might be jealousy or she might take offence
The way I see it, she's going to take offense no matter what. If she's into you, she'll be offended and jealous that you gave the bracelet away. If she's merely your friend... she's still going to be offended that you gave the bracelet away.

Bad idea.
 

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styleman said:
My oneitis of many years (five) and I are close friends and we meet up quite often...

She gave me a bracelet (a relativly expensive one) today... and it's confused me, even though I've pretty much given up any idea of 'us'...
Sounds like a great "friendship" (I quote it because if it is a oneitis then their are ulterior motives. There are no ulterior motives in a friendship).

She gave it to you as a gift and that is all it meant. Don't give meaning to every little thing. Just get over her, go find a better girl, and just make her into a "real friend."

comic_relief
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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