“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Oneitis bug has hit me

FunkyMillion

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Damn! I hate this.

There is this office manager where I work for, she's ok, she's cute but not close to a hb 7 maybe hb5 or hb6.5. She's just tall skinny, curly hair, fair skin, everything I look for in a girl. For some reason, I'm having this oneitis for her, I don't know why. I'm really trying hard to avoid her, not talking to her, just doing everything to forget about her but it just wont go away because I work in that office everyday and I see her everyday. It's a small office. which means that our desks are pretty close to one another.

It feels really weird because I feel like she's not giving me attention while she's giving others more attention. The interesting part is that I know it's psychological [oneitis] but I keep feeling the same way. DAMN!!! I hate this sh!t, I wish there were pills for these.

Anyone else had this experience? Any advice?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maxtro

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You can not go for her. Not only are you coworkers she is your manager. That would be big trouble.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Maybe you should try making friends with her.
You won't be afraid of talking to her, she'll be talking to you and you'll be in the Friendzone so there will no longer be oneitis.

Anyway, the best way to get over oneitis is to meet more girls. So get out and have some fun and talk to some new people man.
 

Potbelly

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Oneitis is often the result of prolonged isolation with women.

Recently I "fell" for this cute girl, but when I regaing my senses I looked at her carefully and realized I was throwing my time away. It happens to the best of us bro....just be sociable and you'll be set. You're desperate and craving some human interaction and attraction.
 

DJorBUST

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Oneitis is the worst disease to have. I speak from experience. Find another woman or kill yourself. Those are really the best two option with this particular affliction.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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